Huh. Bees, wasps, and hornets don't bother me at all. I love bees. Spiders don't bother me either. Ticks do. Flies are the worst, I hate them the most!!
They are dirty, disease spreading, maggot breeding, filthy things. If a fly lands on my food I pretty much lose my appetite or throw away the part they landed on (this may seem extreme, but I live in a mostly rural area with livestock, whhere manure piles and outhouses are a fact of life). I love the hornets, especially the black faced kind: they hunt down the flies. It's really neat to sit and watch them dive and manuever as they catch the flies.
Most of these insects do not sting if you don't swat at them and freak out waving your hands and jumping around. I mean, I have been stung from stepping on one, or inadvertently scaring one that I didn't see, but I have done my chores daily in a barn with several large nests of hornets and rarely got stung.