Uhura wrote:
JSBACH, I wish I had the answer to your question about if you are 'high functioning'.
I am much less functioning than I look like. People confuse 'cure' and 'coping'. And no one realizes how exhausting coping can be or how exhausting sensory overload is.
I wish autism were more visible. Wheelchairs are visible. Autism is one of those things that you can't see unless the person is in a shutdown or meltdown. The rest of the time I look much more 'high functioning' than I feel. I hate it.
I totally agree with you! I have had denial of accommodations at university because of 'too high functioning'.
Once a doctor asked me: are you able to dress yourself, can you feed yourself, drive a car? Yes to all of this? You're not disabled!
It is shocking how little even the so called professionals know about our condition. Even worse, our needs are too often dismissed as nonsense.
A paralyzed person uses a wheelchair, a blind person uses a service dog, but beware the autist that uses earmuffs or that has to stim in public to stay regulated. He will surely be ridiculed!
The thing that shocks me the most is that in our capitalist world, high functioning autists seem to be neglected. I guarantee you that more than half the students of the IT department at my university are auties. In the electronics and engineering (my field of study) autism rates are also very high.
With a thoughtful approach, HF auties are very valuable to society, no doubt about that!
(I still don't understand why there is so much unemployment amongst us)
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Your neurodiverse (Aspie) score: 186 of 200 Aspie Quiz Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 15 of 200
You are very likely neurodiverse (Aspie)