Arguing in a Relationship

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When you in a relationship, why arguing makes you a little tired? It’s not just arguing with my boyfriend, it is my cat too, she been bugging me soooo much, getting into things, meowing so much, I could not handle it, I felt like I’m going to break. I know Aspergers people get tired more, but why?

From your other recent posts, we know you are having a hard time lately. When that is true, any kind of irritation or conflict can seem magnified.

Any conflict makes me exhausted because it removes my feeling of safety with people.
I have no idea how much of it is AS and how much are bad expiriences from my past.