Fnord wrote:
A church elder started a rumor that I was "mentally ill" because I was able to illuminate the flaws in his personal interpretations of the Bible.
Last I checked, seminary was supposed to teach you what "humility" means... for example, the willingness to consider that you may be wrong, and the ability to accept the value of others' opinions even when you think they are wrong.
OP, I'm willing to bet that coloring and owning stuffed animals would have been considered a harmless eccentricity if you had not been a mental patient at the time. Psychologists don't think about that sometimes. We know that eccentricity is not harmful and does not need help from a psychologist--every beginning psychology textbook contains an explanation something along those lines. But when professionals see eccentric behavior in someone with a mental illness, they immediately jump to the idea that this behavior must be a.) part of the mental illness and b.) harmful.
Autistic people are often eccentric, and our eccentricities may have to do with our autism, but they are not usually harmful. And even then, sometimes we're just plain eccentric in a way that hasn't got much to do with our autism. My mom, who's as Aspie as they come, is a conspiracy theorist and a natural-foods afficionado, just like many NTs are. Her level of obsessiveness is autistic, but her odd beliefs are simple eccentricity.
There's one case where eccentricity is a symptom--schizotypal personality disorder. However, it's one of a group of symptoms, and you don't diagnose it unless there is an actual problem in the person's life, just like you don't automatically diagnose nerdy folks with Asperger's.
I have had some similar assumptions made about myself: I kept to myself while hospitalized, and this was assumed to be a sign of depression. They did not consider that most of the patients were not particularly interesting to talk to (maybe because they didn't know interesting things or maybe because they were too drugged up to talk about the interesting things they knew), and that I had gotten books and my schoolwork from friends when they visited me. Yes, I was "withdrawing", but that was because I was an autistic introvert with interesting things to do alone, in the middle of a major burnout episode and instinctively trying to conserve my resources. I had been admitted due to suicidal ideation, which abated by the third day to the point that I was no longer in danger, but they kept me for ten days because they didn't believe I was no longer in crisis. Only once they explicitly told me that they were keeping me because I did not socialize, and once I forced myself into the dayroom and sat there doing the things I usually did in my room, did they finally conclude I was getting better.
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