kraftiekortie wrote:
I bet your stepdaughter thinks the world of you.
Yes she does, and I do her. Truth is I'm much better off for having moved here. It took her over a decade to persuade me to do so. I was very phobic about the thought of moving. Especially getting set up in a new place. What pushed me into moving was my block of flats going to be demolished , and her making it clear she'd do everything to make a move near her go as smoothly as possible . She did a sterling job.
I have also had a greater recognition of my issues here thanks to support from her . At my last place I was the typical ,chronic severely mentally ill person who was self neglecting, but not being a social nuisance. The kind that mental health services chooses to ignore unless you've got a family member fighting your corner.
After over 40 years of no one looking beyond a mental illness, it took 7 months from being referred for assessment here to get an Asperger's diagnosis . My stepdaughter was a great help with that, having done care work with those on the spectrum.