No, I have never had a bed stolen, but I have had a house stolen.
I'm answering because I sense a tragic pattern. People like movers, librarians, and waiters have a certain amount of discretion in their jobs and will bend the rules to favour people they like and take revenge on those who irritate them. You may be in a feedback loop where each injustice makes you more grumpy, and this causes the next one. To turn it around, you may have to force a smile the first time, and always do what you can to make someone's job easier. I don't know what you consider "a bit of dirt" but I know that there are days when I'm comfortable in my bathroom even though I wouldn't feel OK in a friend's one in the same state.