Understanding inappropriate topics of conversation
Matie, your left eye has fallen out of its socket.
I think you should go to the hospital.
Is this acceptable?
oddly apropriate if your dealing with someone who has a phoney eyeball?
or should be written artificial eye ..... remarking on the usefullness of a eyepatch just then may have been more awkward .
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Yes,
To many NTs, it is all about supporting "your" tribe.
To many Auties, it is about personal integrity.
We make up around 3% of the population.
Guess who makes the rules.
Supporting 'your' tribe can sometimes be really dangerous too.
Sports teams is just one eg of this.
Other egs I know not to bring up cos people would get offended.
Sometimes people will also turn a blind eye to stuff when it's going on, or try to rationalise bad stuff cos of who's doing it.
I'm tribal too but only when it's petty or when I'm also sticking up for what's right. Not all the time. I'll be blunt enough to call out wrongdoing whether it's 'my' tribe or not.
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Yes,
To many NTs, it is all about supporting "your" tribe.
To many Auties, it is about personal integrity.
We make up around 3% of the population.
Guess who makes the rules.
Supporting 'your' tribe can sometimes be really dangerous too.
Sports teams is just one eg of this.
Other egs I know not to bring up cos people would get offended.
Sometimes people will also turn a blind eye to stuff when it's going on, or try to rationalise bad stuff cos of who's doing it.
I'm tribal too but only when it's petty or when I'm also sticking up for what's right. Not all the time. I'll be blunt enough to call out wrongdoing whether it's 'my' tribe or not.
Like the blind partisanship in PPR?
Yes,
To many NTs, it is all about supporting "your" tribe.
To many Auties, it is about personal integrity.
We make up around 3% of the population.
Guess who makes the rules.
Supporting 'your' tribe can sometimes be really dangerous too.
Sports teams is just one eg of this.
Other egs I know not to bring up cos people would get offended.
Sometimes people will also turn a blind eye to stuff when it's going on, or try to rationalise bad stuff cos of who's doing it.
I'm tribal too but only when it's petty or when I'm also sticking up for what's right. Not all the time. I'll be blunt enough to call out wrongdoing whether it's 'my' tribe or not.
Like the blind partisanship in PPR?
Exactly.
Old adage 'never talk about politics or religion'.
I don't think philosophy is as tribal which is why I quite like it. But how often do we have a purely philosophical conversation in PPR? A conversation about for eg, the nature of reality? Or an ethical debate which doesn't hinge upon politics? Not very often unfortunately.
When I did philosophy at sixth form, we learnt about 'a priori' thinking. I think politics & religion is prone to it. Also to hero worship - even in politics where everyone is human. And the creation of demons, even in politics where again everyone is human.
I think autistic people can be prone to it too. I know I'm pretty tribal when it comes to politics.
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There was the incident during my dad’s funeral where a cousin showed up wearing the slinkiest, shortest, sheerest black dress I’ve ever seen.
Roughly a week after dad was buried, his sister came to the house to visit mom (which, in itself, was a miracle, since dad was the black sheep of his clan, considering he married the daughter of the town drunk). They began to ratchet jowl about the attendees of the funeral.
They came to the subject of this cousin that said showed up in the slinky black dress. I eventually got into the conversation stating that said cousin “looked like a g0wd-d@mned f!cking slut.” (Turns out she actually was one.). My aunt immediately went berserk on that comment. Mom actually turned to my aunt and said “He’s absolutely right!”
Needless to say most of my relatives on dad’s side of the family never said a word to me since that time.
Ask me if I care....?
Who are you talking about?
The person this thread is about.
Do you mean OP?
If so I disagree tbh.
She seems aware of her issues in this regard and cautious with language as a result.
I think a few comments from online strangers won't help but advice from friends and family on what's appropriate conversation would.
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Roughly a week after dad was buried, his sister came to the house to visit mom (which, in itself, was a miracle, since dad was the black sheep of his clan, considering he married the daughter of the town drunk). They began to ratchet jowl about the attendees of the funeral.
They came to the subject of this cousin that said showed up in the slinky black dress. I eventually got into the conversation stating that said cousin “looked like a g0wd-d@mned f!cking slut.” (Turns out she actually was one.). My aunt immediately went berserk on that comment. Mom actually turned to my aunt and said “He’s absolutely right!”
Needless to say most of my relatives on dad’s side of the family never said a word to me since that time.
Ask me if I care....?
Do you care?
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