31 Oct 2020, 11:13 am
Well, I've never had kids, but for the rest: you are not the only one. 
I'm divorced and couldn't find a single functioning relationship in the last decade, it mainly felt like those guys I met doesn't want to have a relationship, just... you know what... or they are so hurt and emerging the black mist they created, that do not see me, only their past exes.
For friends: they got married and in my culture people stop going out when they have kids. Or maybe they meet other couples with kids. In my case it was the obsession part that drove away most of them, I was too intense, contacted them too often because I was bored and with topics they weren't interested in. I tried to find hobbies I can do alone at home, so I don't feel lonely all the time (but still, every day). Also I don't talk about my hobbies anymore, they are not unique, but they are far from my friends' interests. And no, I couldn't find people who have the same and are older than 30 
For kids: I would advise to do activities that THEY do enjoy. Whatever their hobbies are. If they like gaming for example and you don't: learn it, so you can play with them. Or go hiking, treasure hunting. There is a great worldwide site for geocaching, I often played it: https://www.geocaching.com/
02 Nov 2020, 1:03 am
02 Nov 2020, 8:21 am
I'm divorced and couldn't find a single functioning relationship in the last decade, it mainly felt like those guys I met doesn't want to have a relationship, just... you know what... or they are so hurt and emerging the black mist they created, that do not see me, only their past exes.
For friends: they got married and in my culture people stop going out when they have kids. Or maybe they meet other couples with kids. In my case it was the obsession part that drove away most of them, I was too intense, contacted them too often because I was bored and with topics they weren't interested in. I tried to find hobbies I can do alone at home, so I don't feel lonely all the time (but still, every day). Also I don't talk about my hobbies anymore, they are not unique, but they are far from my friends' interests. And no, I couldn't find people who have the same and are older than 30
For kids: I would advise to do activities that THEY do enjoy. Whatever their hobbies are. If they like gaming for example and you don't: learn it, so you can play with them. Or go hiking, treasure hunting. There is a great worldwide site for geocaching, I often played it: https://www.geocaching.com/
Haha U sound like my kinda lady
02 Nov 2020, 12:41 pm
