10 Nov 2020, 10:56 am
10 Nov 2020, 10:19 pm
10 Nov 2020, 10:33 pm
^ 
would've been ideal
@OP: Seems like it could be useful to some depending on how corporative people in their life are. 
11 Nov 2020, 12:05 am
I also thought that this would have something to do with actual space thank you for the app recommendation
11 Nov 2020, 12:28 am
I just bought my beloved (Aspie) husband a DO NOT DISTURB door sign...For him to alert me whenever he needs space...So that i may keep some distance...But this app may be just what he needs...Wondering what he would think about it... 
14 Nov 2020, 7:36 pm
That's awesome! I would love to hear his feedback. I wonder if a part of the app is that it could, when he needs space, send a message to everyone automatically that he needs space? So you all in the household knew that?
14 Nov 2020, 7:37 pm
would've been ideal@OP: Seems like it could be useful to some depending on how corporative people in their life are.
I guess what you mean is how co-operative people are at listening to the traffic light system?
15 Nov 2020, 9:42 am
That's awesome! I would love to hear his feedback. I wonder if a part of the app is that it could, when he needs space, send a message to everyone automatically that he needs space? So you all in the household knew that?
We have been so-o-o distracted...My beloved husband was involved in an auto accident--not his fault...That i have forgotten to inquire from him about DO NOT DISTURB sign...Though i already suspect he will decline to use it...I will insist anyway...And let you know what happens...
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15 Nov 2020, 11:10 am
I'm an Aspie and before I retired I used to sometimes work long, annoying hours. Afterwards, especially when going to a social event, I got into the habit of just telling my bride "I need to Introvert" when I needed some time to recharge.
When I first started doing that she thought I was mad at her. I would explain I wasn't mad at her I just needed to be left alone so I could recharge; I couched it in MBTI terms because I was known to be a strong INTJ--my Aspieness was identified much later. Over the years (20 years of marriage and still going strong! 
) she has learned to understand it, give me some space when I need it, and on some occasions has noticed when I was starting to get overwhelmed and rescued me on her own initiative.
15 Nov 2020, 11:50 am
When I first started doing that she thought I was mad at her. I would explain I wasn't mad at her I just needed to be left alone so I could recharge; I couched it in MBTI terms because I was known to be a strong INTJ--my Aspieness was identified much later. Over the years (20 years of marriage and still going strong!
) she has learned to understand it, give me some space when I need it, and on some occasions has noticed when I was starting to get overwhelmed and rescued me on her own initiative.
16 Nov 2020, 2:18 pm
That's awesome! I would love to hear his feedback. I wonder if a part of the app is that it could, when he needs space, send a message to everyone automatically that he needs space? So you all in the household knew that?
We have been so-o-o distracted...My beloved husband was involved in an auto accident--not his fault...That i have forgotten to inquire from him about DO NOT DISTURB sign...Though i already suspect he will decline to use it...I will insist anyway...And let you know what happens...
Post-script...I finally had the chance to ask my beloved husband about the DO NOT DISTURB SIGN that i recently bought him...His response was so typical of him...In his Caribbean accent, he calmly told me in Spanish..."Are you rich???...You buy so many things..."...I burst into laughter
...Then, i added, "You want to know how much it cost me???"...[I don't think he cared to know; but i told him anyway]..."One dollar"... 
My husband is right in that i am a spender...But with the monies i buy many miscellaneous--usually household stuff--he buys himself an expensive pair of shoes...So, who's the real spender here
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