I have dyspraxia, ADHD and aspergers traits.
I did not know what empathy was , especially in a focused mind, making decisions, as a result, I received a diagnosis of ADHD.
I did not know what empathy was until the age of 41.
I live in the UK. The support for dyspraxia and aspergers traits is bad. I received a diagnosis of aspergers aged 25. I received a diagnosis of dyspraxia aged 33. I received a diagnosis of ADHD aged 41. I am aged 42.