Joe90 wrote:
While I can relate to NTs and feel what they're feeling often, I still have some thoughts that nobody else can relate to, even Aspies here. Maybe they're delusions?
It's like when I read in a magazine that a woman saved her cat in a fire but let her child die. I don't know the ins and outs, but while understanding the tragic event and feeling my deepest sympathy for the child and their family (please don't flag me as lacking empathy for humans please), I got upset when I saw a picture of the cat she had saved, but people reading the tragic story are supposed to feel angry at the woman and shaming her for putting the cute cat first. I'd be more appropriately responsive if there wasn't a picture of the cat she had saved. I do understand that a mother would instinctively save her baby but...ohh it's a delusion I think but nobody understands. Delusions are hard to explain in words to other people and they just accuse you of being insensitive, when it isn't that at all. I'm TOO sensitive I think, which is why I feel bad for both parties in most situations like this, rather than just the one you're "supposed to" feel bad for. Of course, I don't feel bad for evil people who abuse or kill innocent beings.
I don't think these are delusions. It's an atypical emotional response but your cognitive process seems to be alright. You know what happened, you just feel something different than you expect you "should" feel. But that can happen to entirely mentally healthy person who e.g. has had atypical life experience.
Delusions are when the information about the reality gets seriously distorted.
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