I'm not sure I'm understanding your position clearly.
This is a place where (among other things) aspies and auties can help each other learn to cope better with their ASD in an NT world. In the long run this might be developing stategies for dealing with intimate relationships, or lack thereof, or better understanding what and when to disclose to an employer. In the short run, it might be just venting to a sympathtic audience in The Haven.
Maybe there should be a single thread in The Haven, "You know what I hate...?", where frustrated people can go on and on about what ticks them off, without concern about how others might feel about it. No one needs to read that stuff if they don't want to.
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"The cordial quality of pear or plum
Rises as gladly in the single tree
As in the whole orchards resonant with bees."
- Emerson