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TechnoMathPunk
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Joined: 30 May 2022
Age: 45
Gender: Male
Posts: 7
Location: Berlin, Germany

30 May 2022, 4:03 pm

HeroOfHyrule wrote:
I know autistic people aren't supposed to be "friendly", but I'm wondering if others are also considered to be "too friendly" by others?


Why should autistic people not be friendly? Unlike neurotypicals we miss all the ideas of why we should not be friendly to some people and friendly to others. I talk to homeless people in the same way that I would talk to the CEO of a company. But friendliness is of course also a masking strategy for us. I am afraid that people will fear me if I am not friendly.

My friendliness let to a lot of situations when I just got taken advantage of. I once lost my entire collection of baseball cards because someone said he wanted to loan it. He never returned it of course.