Joe90 wrote:
The obsessions I've ever had have always centered around people, never objects or facts. I used to be obsessed with bus-drivers, and the bus service they drove that I'd regularly board, but I didn't exactly know the bus schedule off by heart and I wasn't interested in the mechanical stuff. I was just interested in getting to know the drivers and flirting with the male ones and being friends with the female ones. They all just either fascinated me or sexually aroused me. But I wasn't a "busspotter" and I hardly knew anything about buses really. I just became a pest and I wish I was the sort of Aspie to get indulged in something where I wouldn't be pestering anybody.
It was obsession, rather than special interest. And it was mostly based on fascination and impulse. I wanted to be them.
What is the difference (and similarity) between obsession and special interests.
I read the link posted above and I have this to say: no, it is not always enjoyable to to research. I hate having questions that just have to het answered.
I can't see how suddenly being forced to think of a question is enjoyable. It is more likely to be painful than enjoyable.
I find the info on that website problematic. Not everyone can live up to the "I just love all the questions that I am forced to think of!".
Some can but I can't. I still recieved a diagnosis.
Perhaps I should call it an obsession.