CockneyRebel wrote:
I tend to hyperfixate on Germany when I get stressed or worn out. It doesn't cause me distress though. It soothes me.
I guess my hyperfixations soothe me to some extent. Sometimes I keep thinking about it past the point of it being enjoyable. I also get a bit of OCD traits showing up sometimes. One way I know it’s a hyperfixation is when it takes me away from my other interests. Even special interests.
I’d say what tends to soothe me the most is special interests that aren’t hyperfixations. Right now that’s studying Finnish. Sometimes I get somewhat hyperfixated and end up studying over 100 words or studying grammar for several hours in a row. Usually that ends up crashing. At least I have a normal study routine that doesn’t 100% rely on hyperfixations. Since I have more dominant special interests than Finnish, it’s fairly easy for me not to talk about Finnish too much. I guess it’s a good “quirky hobby” to mention. I can genuinely say I like it, but also not act too obsessed.