Mermaidstail06 wrote:
Why do people have to. Dehumanise autistic peoples needs for, a lot of NTs do. Not all of course I think sometimes they, can intentionally buy it’s awful. It does really irritate me, when NTs say going to a SEN school is lucky. Why is it lucky autistic people, can not go to a regular school. Of course some can, why is it lucky we need extra support. Why is it lucky how is that luck it is not it’s horrible to be told that.
Or they say they’d love that. When they do not go so they do no know what, it is like it’s awful. Lot of use have to watch kids get, really badly injured there. Someone getting there needs met that, is not luck that’s standard it’s not cool to have. When we require extra support or don’t function how, is that luck how. We are human to.
Could it be they mean they intend to imply that it is lucky that there is support, because we could live in a society where people on the spectrum are committed to institutions as they once were? So it is not that it is lucky one needs a Special Educational Needs school, but it is lucky that the schools exist, and people who attend them aren't simply left aside. I think the intent is well meant. Sometimes people just don't say it well.