I have been very concerned lately is it a Aspergers issue to have problems in that regard? I consider myself very intelligent, calculating, can put things together, think ahead many steps, yet socially forget it. I am not trying to be something I am not, I can be difficult to describe, but in real life I am closest to Detective Goren on Criminal Intent, Jeff Goldblum's detective Nicols, or Captain Ross in personality and social, all joking aside socially and dating really emotionally drains me. I see a lot of guys in work who have no problems in this regard, yet I go home privately upset, crying episodes privately, depressed.