My first exposure to being around a social circles in years

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K_Kelly
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25 Aug 2017, 7:45 pm

I started going to school at a college campus on Wednesday and I already feel better than the routine and trials I had before this all started. I think it's much more of a benefit to me because I am already taking baby steps to interact with those students around or still a bit younger my own age, even said hi to a few girls before, between, and after classes and they say hi back. I have two classes a day for my first semester, add to that it means that I have up to a few hours on campus to myself to explore or hang with possible new friends, free time to work on class assignments, eating lunches, etc.

I am concerned about how to cope with weekends or extended breaks off from the campus environment, though. I am starting to think a lot of my anxiety and doom resulted from being a shut-in who never went out or was in an environment with a crowd of even 2-3 people for mostly all the years since I originally finished high school. I feel more liberated than I even expected from this environment. I guess for now, I'd say that I think it's better than my own personal home experience with parents, even though I'm really living off-campus for this time.

So I made that statement above in the second paragraph? I would like to have some coping advice for the times when I'm not being distracted from being on the campus at school. I still feel some doom and gloom anxiety thoughts sneaking through at the start of the weekend, unfortunately.



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25 Aug 2017, 9:47 pm

The best way, to me, to offset anxiety is to find some way to distract yourself from it.

Go out for walks.

Research what interests you (though not anything of a Armegeddon-type nature LOL).

Exercise (related to walks, of course).

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