I feel sad because one of my special interests is fading :-(

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27 Dec 2009, 1:54 am

One of my special interests is fading away, soon to be known as past and not current. I have been fortunate that this has not happened to me a great deal, but this particular one, I will miss greatly.

I feel sad because it has been such a huge part of my life for years. Now when I get the things out which relate to this special interest, the magic is gone :cry: And this has happened so suddenly too, practically overnight.

I had so much fun with this interest and I desperately want it to continue but I suppose, as will often happen with a special interest, it will be taken over by a new one.

Any suggestions on how to revive a fading special interest, or do I just let it go and remember it fondly?

Gosh, this sounds like I'm saying goodbye to a friend who is going overseas or who has passed away. But for me, this has comforted me and been something I could delve into when I was feeling stressed or overwhelmed or needed some inspiration to keep going with my university study.



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27 Dec 2009, 2:31 am

Aw, fading interests suck. And it really sucks being stuck in limbo between interests without something to cling onto yet. What is it, if i may ask? I know that with my reptile interest, it seems to get more energized when i get a new kind of snake or something. I also think that getting a new reptiles magazine each month is kind of exciting and usually has some species or something i didn't know much about yet in it, so it keeps it interesting. I guess it depends what the interest is, but maybe if you can find a way to broaden it to some new related stuff it could keep it interesting to you, so that it's still in the picture.. or you could find a new website, book, or magazine related in some way to it to learn something new and fresh.



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27 Dec 2009, 6:30 am

Ooops, I have just seen another thread talking about this exact thing. "I want my Asperger's Obsessions back, Darn it!! !!"

Sorry!! !



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27 Dec 2009, 6:32 am

I had a special interest that faded nearly three years ago, and than it came back, with a vengence, in late September. I'm not saying what it is, though. People have to guess. :?:


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27 Dec 2009, 6:57 am

RIP Benny & Joon.