PhilolovesJ wrote:
Does anyone here have NLD along with your AS?
I do.
My Verbal IQ is 130
My Performance is 80
This gap means I have problems with nonverbal things
I have issues with
Motor skills
Spatial skills
Math skills
Organizing skills
Among other things.
I have excellent verbal abilities though
I heard that around 30-50 % of aspies have NLD
Do you?
Wow, your description fits me PERFECTLY! Except that I'm almost 43 years old, and wasn't diagnosed until I was sixteen, after years and years of suffering in school and socially and even with family. The pysychologist said that it was the largest gap she'd ever seen in her entire professional career. My verbal IQ is 130, but my nonverbal IQ is, get this, 77! As you can imagine, this has caused no end of problems for me all throughout my life in almost ALL areas, even those I'm really good at. I call it "The Octopus." It's like one entire half of my brain is completely different from the other half. Almost every job I have ever had has been difficult, I've either been fired or quit before I could be fired, when I knew it was imminent. I can't begin to describe the frustration and fear that causes.
And it doesn't matter how hard I try, either, the Octopus is everywhere. It takes me a long time to process things, even though, once I do, I'm okay. I also simply cannot multitask, my brain cannot handle multi-sensory input. And all of this has only gotten worse as I get older, frankly. Learning disabilities are, in all honesty, misnomers. They do not end at the age of 18 or 22 when school is over and adulthood begins, far from it. They never end and they never go away.
And yes, I also have AS/autistic tendencies. My teenage son is an Aspie, and we share several of the same characteristics.
And if I hear "but you're so smart, how can you have a learning disability/be AS" one more freaking time, I swear I will NOT be responsible for my actions!! !! !
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