MrMark wrote:
funkfisk wrote:
MrMark wrote:
Well of course we do. We have to.
Elaborate please

Our language and social skills do not come to us innately. We frequently don't go through a "baby-talk" phase. We can learn body language and other non-verbal communication,
but we have to think about it.
Yeah, what he said really. My missus often tells me that she's surprised how well I manage to cope in odd social situations like weddings for example, full of people we've never met before, but to me it's because the alien-ness of that situation is how pretty much all social interaction is to me, and hence I'm well practised at it
I never find the whole general social small talk thing comes easy to me because it feels unnatural, and thus the only way to manage it is to think about it constantly whilst on the go.
As for whether I analyse stuff more than NT's, I think it's safe to say it's true. I think my biggest failing in life is that I'm able to over-analyse the fun in almost anything...
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