Many thanks to all of you for your good and lovely tipps.
With 43 on Simon-Baron Cohen and 160 on the RDOS it seems that the psychologist (who sendet me to the neurologist), and the neurologist's diagnoses as well are correct :/
I've made the Simon-Baron Cohen before but in german and I had 47 of 50 possible points. So I'm "less aspie" in english than in german (autsch).
The Aspie-quiz was new to me and I've found the evaluation (with this graphics) very interesting.
The neuroligist was actually making other kind of tests (no questioning) but more "paper-work" like "searching for a special combination of letters in a big text", "finding combinations of numbers" "searching for details in pictures" and so on .... I've made that all in a "remarkably short time" as he said. But on the other side I had problems to determine if a face, without mouth and hairs, was either female or male.
I was hoping to find more tests like that actually ...(the technical ones)
He (the neurologist) conclued that my brain was funcionning in a different way than others. That's it : a syndrome, not a disease. This diagnose was not very useful to me considering that I allways felt I was a bit different than the others (except that I was thinking the others were all crazy and I was the only wright-one) So, he confirmed, that I am "the minority".
Now, with age 42, all those results are not relevant for me anymore. They are only interesting.
Now I am diagnosTED, finally. They catagorise clearly what I was allways thinking and feeling but couldn't explain by simple words. Since ever I get on more easily with motorbikes, engines or computers than with peoble. Now all of my thinkings and feelings, my whole human-being is in a norm : F84.5 ... and that's reassuring.
Merry Christmas,
Amely