Wrackspurt wrote:
Well, what is the definition of ret*d? It means delayed, no? It's the word that has been misused that makes it terrible. Autistics are in fact delayed.. at least when compared to neurotypicals.

Well, it generally means slower. For intelligence, it is supposed to mean significantly below average.
Frankly, I think a LOT of people should be considered ret*d, and most aren't autistic. I heard the word IDIOT used by three other people today levied at different groups. NONE of those accused to be idiots seemed autistic, and 1 or 2 of the accusers DID seem autistic. The ret*d NTs likely won't be diagnosed though.
BOTH of the autistic accusers are considered to be good workers, one has 1 master degree, is almost done with another, and seems quite smart. The accuser that seemed to be NT got into a line of discussion which pegs her IQ at between 133 and 148.