Callista, I am the same, according to my parents. My psychiatrist will probably go with mild, if that's how it goes, though. My therapist, who knows me much better, will probably go with moderate.
It's more like, I know the therapist better and am not afraid to be myself. I don't make myself sick for the sake of being verbal for her anymore, and she's seen me off in my own, unreachable world.
It's the same as the Asperger's/autism issue. Mild/moderate. What day? What hour?