A guy on another site has a question about getting diagnosed
Okay, the guy commenting on an ABC News article asked about getting a reliable diagnosis in the event that he is autistic like his children. I know it is a bit silly to be asking other people to answer still another person's question for me, but not only do I not know the answer to his actual question, I also do not feel emotionally qualified to address some of his other statements. The wishing his children were never born thing kind of freaks me out, you know...
Yeah, it drives me nuts when people assume someone else is better off dead than having to live with challenges. How about you let them decide for themselves how happy they will be as adults. No one should ever make a judgement like that in someone else's behalf. I know it's emotionally troubling for some people to hear their kid is autistic, but they need to suck it up, stop being such drama queens about it and love their kids anyway. Sadly if he's so determined his kids are going to be such miserable losers because of it, that may rub off on them (depending on how autistic they are). Sometimes I feel kind of bitter when people talk about how social and perfect and successful and popular their kids will be. So, what, if they turn out like me they are going to be unlovable and rejected even by their own parents? No one can know how their kids will turn out in the long run, much less control it. All well, I guess there will always be social perfectionists that will try anyway.
As for the question, I don't really know. He just seemed like a depressed shallow guy, but I don't know him so I can't really judge. I'm just too annoyed about how he reacted to his kids like they were burnt toast.
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