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13 Sep 2005, 8:06 pm

I do this all the time, talking to myself...or to my cat. Trying to predict or talk out situations that will happen in the near future mostly. I do this often when walking or driving my car. Anyone else do this?



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13 Sep 2005, 8:37 pm

Yep all the time especcially when Im trying to work out my homework situation (or something like that) and preferbly when Im alone (though I sometimes just whisper to myself when someone else is with me.)


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13 Sep 2005, 8:56 pm

I do this all the time. Especially if I'm going to be talking with another person or in a social situation. If I'm calling somewhere for some reason I'll sit there for 15 minutes going over and saying what I'm going to say during the conversation. I do this because I know that I won't be able to handle the situation very well on-the-fly like a normal person would. If I were just to make a cold call I would barely be able to make sense to the other person. The planning reduces my anxiety because I'm prepared. I do it out-loud because I believe in testing under actual "live" circumstances.



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13 Sep 2005, 9:01 pm

Yup. And talk to the cat. OK, converse with the cat, speaking for both sides. OK, so i'm insane. :twisted:



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13 Sep 2005, 9:20 pm

I talk to the cat all the time.

I also talk aloud, ad people think i'm talking to them, I just say I was talking to myself.



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13 Sep 2005, 9:23 pm

Well, I wouldnl't say that I think out loud, but sometimes my lips move when there's no sound coming out. Anyone else do this?


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13 Sep 2005, 9:27 pm

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Well, I wouldnl't say that I think out loud, but sometimes my lips move when there's no sound coming out. Anyone else do this?


Yes, I do. I also whisper to myself sometimes.

I didn't even realize I did this until a couple of years ago when I noticed people passing me on the street were staring at me like I was a freak.



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13 Sep 2005, 9:30 pm

ALL the time. Every day of the week. Doesn't matter where I am. I am sometimes disruptive when I do it in school but oh well.


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13 Sep 2005, 9:48 pm

I do this all the time, often "playing" the voice of someone else [usually someone who has upset me and with whom I am in confrontation] in my head and answering their "voice" out loud. It is a form of rehearsal and I will go through all the possible variations I can consider. Generally I speak out loud when I am alone, but with others present I just move my lips and whisper under my breath.

Also when NTs use incorrect grammar in discussion with me, I will "translate" their incorrect speech in my head and repeat the correct grammatical form under my breath and then act on that correct statement or question. I learned long ago they do not like you to correct them out loud! They are awfully touchy!

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14 Sep 2005, 1:05 am

Serissa wrote:
Yup. And talk to the cat. OK, converse with the cat, speaking for both sides. OK, so i'm insane. :twisted:


heh

x2 on the moving lips count. I plead guity and move to dismiss.



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14 Sep 2005, 1:09 am

all the time.

and i still make no sense, sometimes, even to myself. i have rows with myself, people... :roll:



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14 Sep 2005, 1:19 am

Serissa wrote:
OK, so i'm insane. :twisted:

We've known for a while now. :lol:



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14 Sep 2005, 6:58 am

Sean wrote:
Serissa wrote:
OK, so i'm insane. :twisted:

We've known for a while now. :lol:


GO CHEW ON A MUNCHKIN!! !! ! :twisted: ((That was supposed ot be an insane-sounding insult))

And yeah, I do the lip-moving thing too.



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14 Sep 2005, 9:18 am

Yes, SO MUCH of the time I do this. I had also noticed that I did this a little too noticeably in the grocery store when I am alone and shopping. So now I have learned to whisper (woohoot!) and to barely move my lips. And if I pass a person, I hold onto my comment until I'm out of ear range.

I do this also while I'm walking on campus. But I believe I am quite good and keeping it quiet enough, stopping when someone passes me, and not moving my lips-- much like a ventriloquist. At least to this point in my life no one has mentioned it to me. I guess I have to take that as I am successfully hiding my self-directed comments as best as can be asked without totally getting rid of them altogether. And getting rid of them would be UNTHINKABLE! Pah! :D


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14 Sep 2005, 9:29 am

This is something I would like to get rid of. :?


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14 Sep 2005, 10:46 am

I have to say, I often re-run arguments I've had and take them off at a tangent. I also seem to do new ones as well, reacting out loud to comments that people I know either have said or could reasonably be expected to day.

It can actually get me quite stressed and angry. I tend to keep a lid on it when out and about, but I do get caught out from time to time, particularly when stressed. I have also been known to 'pull facial expressions', which have earned a few unfavourable comments from time to time. This is noticeable in the workplace, if I let my thoughts wonder and inadvertently say something.

At home, I consider it reasonable to just be myself, but that can be a mistake too. A 'friend' (read, clingy freeloader after free board and lodging), who was staying gratis in my flat for an unspecified period of time while I was at college often commented on behaviours such as grinding my teeth in my sleep (how would I know I did that?), facial expressions with no apparent external stimuli, tensing up for no apparent reason and either muttering/whispering or saying things to myself.

This 'friend' ensured quite a reputation against me by making sure that everyone else knew about it. No wonder I was considered a 'freak' and a 'weirdo' by the rest of them!

I think one of the correct terms for these things is 'internal dialogue', but with most people, they do not spill out into physical expression.


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