Things that don't make any sense to you
Things that don't make any sense to me:
It's okay for babies to go around nude in public but it's not okay for older children to do it, I'm taking about children who haven't reached puberty yet.
It's okay for little girls to have their underwear showing from under their dress but once they get to elementary school, it's unacceptable so they can't maybe swing or play on the monkey bars, have to be careful how they sit, etc. I always wore shorts under mine when I was six and seven because I hated how it limited to my play.
People who put other people down for their disability but yet they have a disability themselves.
People who complain about what other people are doing but they turn around and do it themselves.
People do something mean to other people but when someone does it to them, they don't like it.
Bullies picking on other people but when they get picked on, they don't like it.
My mother and other grown ups teaching me how to apologize when I was a kid but then I learn at 17 in a autism group it's wrong to do fake apologizing and my mother agreed with those people who are on the autism spectrum. WTF, then why the hell did she teach me to apologize then for every time I do something wrong, and every time I hurt someone on accident you apologize and then she turns around and says they're right and I'm not supposed to apologize if I don't understand why I'm apologizing or I don't even mean it. But then why did she teach me to apologize in the first place and I wouldn't even understand why I had to say it or I just didn't care so therefore I had learned to do fake apologies because it's part of being nice and respectful.
Mom doesn't like me talking bad about other people but she turns around does it herself. I don't think she tells me to stop anymore because I'm a grown up but she can ask me to stop because she doesn't like to hear it or tell me she would like to talk about something else. She didn't even like me cursing as I talk about someone but she did it about my ex.
I never even asked her why is it okay for her to do it but not me but I have asked her about other things that didn't make sense and she explain them to me so now it makes sense.
If teens don't face the death penalty because they might not fully understand their actions or fully understand about the law, then why give them life sentences then? Why even try them as adults?
It's wrong to kill but it's okay for the supreme court to kill. What happened to "two wrongs don't make it right?"
US supreme court outlawed the executions for the mentally retardation because they don't understand their actions or understand what they did wrong because of their young minds so why prison then? Why punish them for something they didn't understand what they did wrong? I understand MR isn't an excuse for crime but can't they be put somewhere else instead like in an institution so they aren't with other criminals where they can get taken advantage of and hurt and raped.
Some people who are found not guilty because of their insanity get put in a mental hospital instead of prison so why can't MR get the same?
When I was seven, there was this boy in my class who always ran in the classroom with his pants pulled down but he never got in trouble for it but he would get in trouble for not coming inside after the bell would ring for end of recess. Why did he not get punished for the other but got punished for not coming inside even though he didn't understand those two.
People asking you a question and you answer it but they tell you to shut up after you do answer it
There was this person online who was real nice and protective over me but when I turned 18 she turned real harsh to me, simply because I wasn't a child anymore but she was very harsh to a 16 year old aspie while she was all nice to me when I was 17. Why did I have different treatment and the other aspie didn't?
People having problems with posts, so why view them then if they don't like them and also people having problems with adult topics in the adult forum. what the heck? why view those too?
I think that's all. I'll add more later if anything else comes up.
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People do something mean to other people but when someone does it to them, they don't like it.
Bullies picking on other people but when they get picked on, they don't like it.
These never made sense to me, but I find it to be an interesting thing to observe. Some people are so quick to react when given a taste of their own medicine. Funny ain't it?
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People do something mean to other people but when someone does it to them, they don't like it.
Bullies picking on other people but when they get picked on, they don't like it.
These never made sense to me, but I find it to be an interesting thing to observe. Some people are so quick to react when given a taste of their own medicine. Funny ain't it?
Yes I like pointing it out to them and then they usually get nasty hehe.
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People do something mean to other people but when someone does it to them, they don't like it.
Bullies picking on other people but when they get picked on, they don't like it.
These never made sense to me, but I find it to be an interesting thing to observe. Some people are so quick to react when given a taste of their own medicine. Funny ain't it?
Yes I like pointing it out to them and then they usually get nasty hehe.
Why, I wonder.
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I think it is societies expecations of how one must act. What is right for one age group isn't right for another that sort of thing.
People feel the need to talk about others and put them down in order to make themselves look or feel good.
Also people who say one thing is wrong and then do it themselves are hypocrites. Kinda like 'do as I say not as I do'.
Very good thread!! !! !! !
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People do something mean to other people but when someone does it to them, they don't like it.
Bullies picking on other people but when they get picked on, they don't like it.
These never made sense to me, but I find it to be an interesting thing to observe. Some people are so quick to react when given a taste of their own medicine. Funny ain't it?
Yes I like pointing it out to them and then they usually get nasty hehe.
Why, I wonder.
and ive seen her do those things she just complained about on other forums, specifically this:
"People who complain about what other people are doing but they turn around and do it themselves."
shes called out some dude named uncle beer, on another forum and was quite nasty to him. and then she comes over here and acts like a caring supporting member, she also thought it was funny i was having a go at another member here and came over here like she was soooo concernd by what i was doing to her
give me a break
People who put other people down for their disability but yet they have a disability themselves.
Those are usually people that don't fully accept the idea that they have a disability and would prefer to improve on their difficulties and try to live as normally or freely as possible rather than accept the hurdles life throws at them. When somebody else is doing the latter, this person feels that they are only cheating themselves and being a wimp.
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Ketchup.
Animal cruelty.
Because it shows dedication and intelligence.
Technically, as to others "standards," I have an 8th grade education simply because I detested going to school.
Which brings me to another thing I don't understand:
The need to feel validated through a stupid paper degree that's beyond easy to cheat/fake your way to obtaining.
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People do something mean to other people but when someone does it to them, they don't like it.
Bullies picking on other people but when they get picked on, they don't like it.
These never made sense to me, but I find it to be an interesting thing to observe. Some people are so quick to react when given a taste of their own medicine. Funny ain't it?
Yes I like pointing it out to them and then they usually get nasty hehe.
Why, I wonder.
and ive seen her do those things she just complained about on other forums, specifically this:
"People who complain about what other people are doing but they turn around and do it themselves."
shes called out some dude named uncle beer, on another forum and was quite nasty to him. and then she comes over here and acts like a caring supporting member, she also thought it was funny i was having a go at another member here and came over here like she was soooo concernd by what i was doing to her
give me a break
C'mon you're nasty to me on the other forum. Give me a break.
Everyone, Richard acts like a nice caring person here but yet goes on another forum and acts nasty to me. What have I ever done to him? Nothing. It started with "Bah you're stupid Spokane Girl" just because I couldn't understand someone's hint what his name was here.
BTW Richard this is a support forum so what you did with Ticker was uncalled for vs what you did over there and at Zomg and she isn't even on that forum so it didn't matter but she is on here so it did matter.
There is a difference between this forum and the other two forums. It was funny over there but here it is not funny. Get it now? Or do I need to use examples? If you're so smart, you will get it, if not, then you're an idiot too so it wouldn't make sense for you so say I am one.
Uncle beer was not nice to me on this forum but he has turned around and complained about Alex being mean to him because he said he is a racist. That doesn't make sense. He can regret what he did even though I am not upset about it anymore.
Oh yeah everyone, Richard thinks I'm an idiot just because I take things literal and don't understand humor well and I am gullible, even though I have AS but he made this excuse up about me, I'm an NT with strong interests and obsessions but he full well knows I am not an NT, he just wants to believe it so he can have an excuse to treat me like this. I am convinced he likes picking on aspies who have those weaknesses.
BTW Richard what is an NT?
An NT is someone who doesn't have an neurological conditions, an NT doesn't always mean someone who isn't on the spectrum, I just learned that this year.
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