Second what Zarathustra said,as he sounds similar to the two aspies at the last res.home am lived in [neither were stereotypical aspies though].
But don't think that own friend is at the [high] functioning level,if the person struggles with speech,reading..... they affect the persons day to day functioning,if the rest of his functioning is definitely [high],it sounds like he has splintered functioning,meaning he's hf in some things,but mf or even lf [depending on weakness of his functioning skills] in others.
Doctors unfairly put people into only one set level,so the functioning level people are told they have by professionals often is not representing fully because many Auties and Aspies have splintered skills,yet often,others [eg,this might be teachers,family,medical people..]will listen only to what a professional has said because they have medical certificates,and not judge the person on their own functioning skills.
It leads to Auties and Aspies being either over or under supported,being under or over challenged.
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>severely autistic.
>>the residential autist;
http://theresidentialautist.blogspot.co.uk
blogging from the view of an ex institutionalised autism/ID activist now in community care.
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