MR_BOGAN wrote:
Does anybody use fighting instincts as a coping stategy?
I've stopped doing it for the moment, but normally if I'm under any pressure or I need to do something I dig down into my fighting instincts to make myself cope. I don't know if anybody has got in a physical fight, but I tap into those instincts.
I have a high boiling point and don't have any angry problems or anything like that.
Maybe not the most healthy way of dealing with things but it seemed to get me to achieve a lot.
I do it less now than before. I now view all contact outside my family as a liability. I now lean more towards avoiding people now and limiting conversation only to communicating necessary information. Since I have my wife and kids, I can do without social contact with anyone else.
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Yeah with all of these men lining up to get neutered
It's hip now to be feminized
I don't highlight my hair
I've still got a pair
Yeah honey, I'm still a guy