Hello;
I have been trying (with mixed success) to describe to friends why I am finding some routine tasks so difficult.
The best description I can give them so far is like this:-
- imagine a 3 lane motorway, where there are roadworks. Because of the work, 2 lanes are closed. All the traffic has to go through the single lane that is still open. My attention is like the single lane, the things I have to do are the cars in the traffic.
- if all the drivers patienly "merge in turn", and wait for each other to go into the single lane, then the traffic flows smoothly through the bottleneck, without much stress
- if any drivers try to compete, and get through ahead of others, then the bottleneck gets clogged, and there are occasional collisions. Then there is a long delay while everything is sorted out. This is what happens to my thoughts if people try to hurry me.
Ands this is why I am always trying to slow things down, in spite of being "motivated" and "intelligent".
Does this make sense to anyone?
regards,
T