Um, if I am properly understanding the post you are talking about...
The rules are usually not enforced that harshly here, and I was really confused as to why that particular thread was singled out. I wouldn't get too stressed out over it... from what I've seen as long as you don't go around making death threats left & right and try not to BLATANTLY break the rules, you will be accepted for who you are here
But yes, I tend to assume that as long as I'm just generally trying to be a decent guy then I will be following the rules by default. This usually works except when some petty-minded a**hole randomly decides he has it in for me and tries to nail me on some very minor technicality. Also, when it becomes clear that I am EXPECTED to bend the rules a LITTLE in order to work the system properly (I'm thinking of school here, but it could apply elsewhere) I sometimes don't know how much I'm supposed to be bending the rules and sometimes end up doing it too much or too little