tired of ret*d mother

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was writing a huge reply but its not neccesary eventualy all you whant to know is that today i almost bite my own finger off because
of my mother today and i wonder if its normal for mothers to treat there autistic child like nothing in comparation with other familie
members?(also i quit my gluten free diet sinds my familie doesnt understand crap about anything dont care anymore really it makes
me so angry)I really wonder if other people who in there youth have had anything related or who are now a kid?

my entire family is low-educated. it's not that they wouldn't be able, they just don't care.

i don't understand how they could overlook the obvious autistic signs i have been showing in my childhood. i've been rocking, stimming, had sensory issues and my father even thought he can fix me by force. every time i've been stimming he asked me if i am nervous. that question drove me crazy.

well, the times were different, autism was not so explored back then, but it would be the same even nowadays, i believe.

it's like the fact, confirmed by studies, that low-educated parents have obese children more often. they just don't care.

so i've learned to rely only on myself. i didn't need anyone from my family to understand me. only rarely shared with them anything. i closed myself from the outside world even more.

Sorry, that I can't give you much advise about the problems with your parents. But this seems to be the wrong reaction. The diet should help YOU. If you quit it, you punish yourself to punish your parents (Assuming this diet is necessary for your health).
If your parents are no help, you'll have to look after yourself. Try to get your thoughts independent from them. And don't direct the anger you have against yourself.

Not to be rude or anything but maybe your mother is tired of her ret*d son? ever think of that? respect your mother son. If it werent for her you'd be dead, coat hanger before you had the chance. And dont tell me you "wish you were dead" like an emo kid thats bu11zhit and you know it. So, where was i? Oh yea, dont even think about calling her ret*d in front of her face. tough love but somebody had to say it.

i think you misreaded it SHE calls ME ret*d jeez even if im doing nothing wrong at all learn to read because your making me more upset (ive never hurt her or anything its the opposite way)
i think you cant know what someone is like if youve never seen him/her i hate those people even more who asume my life is a fairy tale wheee a sick crazy mother who yells at me all the time shes frustrated
edit:why would i bite on my finger very badly if its nothing bad?

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well you did name this thread 'tired of ret*d mother'. (i found it funny actually.) although i don't agree with Mindovermatter that one should be thankful to parents for keeping their child alive. i mean there should be something more in it.

Okay i reread your post and I stick to what I said. I'm not trying to make you upset but it's also not my problem if you get upset Im just telling it like it is. I got news for you bro life is ugly and hard and people suck, if you cant handle your mother you cant handle ANYBODY. look man there are 2 sides to every story and autistic or mentally insane it doesnt matter what you have YOU'RE LIVING UNDER HER ROOF(I assume no?) So you respect your mother, she calls you ret*d fine then give her some space be nice to your mother and SHE will come to her senses and realize if she's being a 4 letter word. Also do everything she asks of you(chores, favors ect) check it out, this is where it gets good, there IS a god and IF after you do all I said and she still calling you names(i doubt it) then your correct and you have better things coming to you. If all else fails and you feel like life sucks crack open a bible(if you dont like/cant read check out a nearby church).


until then check out 3 doors down - not my time music video on youtube it kicks @$$

that's it? she does what she is obliged to do and therefore she deserves respect? you think he didn't try your recipe to be a good son? you are sure she is calling him like that because he is a bad son?


oh, come on...

Prayer can't hurt ... ever. Seriously, open a Bible.

i dont beleve in god
just stay to the fact of why aspies are always the black sheep of the familie

You may not believe in God, but He believes in you. And yes, I am an Aspie and thus the black sheep of my family. All the more reason for God.

Did I say bad son? my mistake, no it's because he's young. Believe me I had all the same complaints didnt get it until later. Believe me original poster you'll see one day your mother loves you. I see alot of myself in you.

yeah, me neither.

these people probably didn't have an abusive parent and they believe that every parent deserves a respect. what world do you live in? aren't you a little too much naive even for aspies? look around, there are planty of people who should not have children in first place.

i used to have nightmares with my father yelling at me, i was waking up in middle of night all sweaty and fast breathing. it stopped only few years ago after very significant moment when i realized that there is nothing i should respect him for. yes, he gave me place to live and food to eat, but i would do much better, if he didn't live with us. my mom divorced him only after i left home and i had problems to forgive her that she didn't do it earlier.

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Later in life, OP, you will come to appreciate what your parents do for you now.

I love you brother(sister?), no im not weird I jsut get in this weird mood were I love everybody sometimes even people I dont know. Because we're all related, all the same, all lost(in some way)