NocturnalQuilter wrote:
LifeOfTheSpectrum wrote:
Really? I find people tiring, but not totally a bad thing.
Have you had mainly bad experiences with people?
Certainly not all my experiences are "bad". I have a small group of really good friends, my partner is amazing and my soon-to-be-ex-boss is a cool guy. It's almost everyone outside of that small circle that I can't deal with: The rude drivers, the shallow salespeople, the competitive intellectual types (on and on and on...). That is why I try very hard to remain in my circle and venture out only when absolutely necessary.
I'm like that, but I can socialise outside of my circle, but not as well as I can IN my circle.
It's like in History (GCSE) someone asked what the Holocaust was.
They then proceeded to ask for a foot massage from me.
It's experiences like this that keep them out of my circle, but at a cost.
Sorry, if I sound vague.
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DX'd with Classic Autism.