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OregonBecky
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05 Jan 2009, 5:05 pm

If one person says to the other one, do this or I'll do that, then the other person says, is that a threat? Why people say that? It's a Duh answer and what does it have to do with what they were discussing?


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05 Jan 2009, 5:26 pm

To translate your sentence, it means "do this or I'll be really really really upset." And the response, "You really care that much? Okay."
It's just a way of stressing a point.



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05 Jan 2009, 5:27 pm

I think "is that a threat" is meant as a challenge, and if the first person says 'yes that's a threat" then the other person can say something about it. It gives the threatener the option to back down, so that the threatened can feel justified in responding if the threatener did not choose to back down. I don't know if I'm explaining this very well - I know what I mean but I don't know if it sounds like it makes sense to anybody else. :?


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05 Jan 2009, 5:33 pm

Then it's a "read between the lines" thing? I'm not good at that.


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05 Jan 2009, 5:55 pm

It can be a crime to threaten someone so some people are clarifying that, especially in front of witnesses. It's best not to threaten people anyway.



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05 Jan 2009, 6:00 pm

Postperson wrote:
It can be a crime to threaten someone so some people are clarifying that, especially in front of witnesses. It's best not to threaten people anyway.


Sometimes you don't think of it as a threat. Like if I say, if you keep leaving the milk out, I won't buy it anymore, someone might reply, is that a threat?

I didn't mean it's about someone saying, I'll kill you if you touch my car. I know about the legal implications.


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05 Jan 2009, 6:02 pm

you don't have to do anything unless they hold a gun to your head.


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05 Jan 2009, 9:06 pm

OregonBecky wrote:
Then it's a "read between the lines" thing? I'm not good at that.

Then you need to work on that.



05 Jan 2009, 9:43 pm

I always thought people thought they were being threatened. Like "Go clean your room or you will be grounded for a week?" and the child says "Is that a threat?" because his mother threatened to ground him if he doesn't do what she says.



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05 Jan 2009, 11:55 pm

Spokane_Girl wrote:
I always thought people thought they were being threatened. Like "Go clean your room or you will be grounded for a week?" and the child says "Is that a threat?" because his mother threatened to ground him if he doesn't do what she says.


But when someone says, is that a threat? it makes as much sense fpr me to reply, yes, now my turn, was that an interogatory statement? We're going off topic and talking about the styles of talking we're doing.


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