Do you want to start over with a new identity?

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Ana54
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13 Jan 2008, 8:12 pm

I do. I'm embarrassed about my negative/depressive thoughts/feelings/talk/behavior.

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13 Jan 2008, 8:19 pm

Nope, because everyone loves me as Berserker.

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13 Jan 2008, 8:21 pm

Nope, because this is me, good and bad.

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13 Jan 2008, 8:24 pm

No. Besides, we'd know it was you anyway.

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13 Jan 2008, 8:34 pm

ShadesOfMe wrote:

No. Besides, we'd know it was you anyway.

Yeah! We would!

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13 Jan 2008, 8:35 pm

Berserker wrote:

ShadesOfMe wrote:

No. Besides, we'd know it was you anyway.

Yeah! We would!

She's a very unique person. a new username could not disguise the person she is inside.

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13 Jan 2008, 8:40 pm

ShadesOfMe wrote:

Berserker wrote:

ShadesOfMe wrote:

No. Besides, we'd know it was you anyway.

Yeah! We would!

She's a very unique person. a new username could not disguise the person she is inside.

That's true, ShadesOfMe.

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13 Jan 2008, 9:47 pm

No, I'd just end up with me again.

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13 Jan 2008, 9:50 pm

Ana54 wrote:

I do. I'm embarrassed about my negative/depressive thoughts/feelings/talk/behavior.

Do you mean with regard to WP or your life in general?

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13 Jan 2008, 9:54 pm

Ana54 wrote:

I do. I'm embarrassed about my negative/depressive thoughts/feelings/talk/behavior.

observing the negative is the first step toward positive change.

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13 Jan 2008, 10:14 pm

Ana54 wrote:

I do. I'm embarrassed about my negative/depressive thoughts/feelings/talk/behavior.

Never be embarrassed about your feelings, as it's ok to feel down just as it's ok to feel happy. Being embarrassed is a waste of energy as no-one else knows what is going on in your head so won't be judging you anywhere as hard as you do yourself.

Now I'm in my thirties I've put embarrassment, shame and guilt into a box marked 'do not open' and shelved them in my brain. Next to the 'trying to trying to keep everyone happy', and 'pretending to be normal' boxes. It was a happy day when I finally tidied them all away.

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13 Jan 2008, 10:24 pm

when ever I move from one city to another I change my name and my hair color and start all over again. Only after about 18 months it starts to buckle under and I start to lose my balance with keeping all the social situations, the people that have gotten close, the job, the bills and by three years ( at the most) I have to move again and start all over. I have done this for over 30 years and always wondered why. I always was me, eventually.

I even see it happening here, too.

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13 Jan 2008, 10:53 pm

morriganinoregon wrote:

I even see it happening here, too.

Nothing wrong with an occasional paradigm shift.

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13 Jan 2008, 10:55 pm

In the words of Will Smith, "Hell Naw!"

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13 Jan 2008, 11:00 pm

It doesn't sound like a bad idea, but I'm afraid my awkwardness would still shine through.

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13 Jan 2008, 11:41 pm

more then anything
I hate the whole Kilroy thing
its like another side of me, that I don't like
mind you I don't like the RL side either

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