Forgive me, please, but it is not the video quality that "bothers" me. It's the sing-song tone of your voice.
But that's just me!
Unless someone speaks in a near-monotone, I can't listen to what they're saying. I'm sorry.
Best of luck. I hope Kitty and the BF feel better soon. You too!
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