Bataar wrote:
I'm definitely a pessimist and was wondering where other Aspies stand. It's really irritating, but no matter what I've tried, I haven't been able to work around it. I'll be talking with someone about a problem I'm facing and they'll make suggestions. Almost before they're done making the suggestion, I can tell them all the problems with it and can't convince myself the solution is worth it if it requires overcoming those problems. With ideas, people, anything, the first thing I notice are its flaws.
I guess I am a happy pessimist... I'm surprised when things go well; when things fail, then it isn't as much a surprise. But I don't look for the bad solely - people start out as whole stone and sculpt themselves in my mind as opposed to a more constructionist approach.
M.
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