Different day, different mood?

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I have a hard time understanding how people can be in good mood one day laugh and talk with you, then the next day be totally different they don't act as friendly with you, etc.

I always want to know the REASON for the difference. Tipcally people tell me thei is nonthing wrong, but it seems hard to leave it at that when I can clearly see their is a difference. In turn my costant questioning of "What is wrong?" drives people crazy then they end up getting mad at me.

How can i deal with this? It is not easy for me to udnerstand that just because people act differently does not mean they don't like me anymore...anyone else have this problem? Any ideas for me?

Sometimes people don't want to talk about it. Sometimes people who do talk about it get labelled 'whiners'.