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Do you see yourself as an argumentative sort of person?
Not really. I think of an argumentative person as someone who tries to start arguments. I try to go along and enjoy the interaction, but if someone says something I disagree with, it's more upsetting for me to let it slide than to get into a fight over it.
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Do you fall out with people or do you manage to disagree with them, but remain friends?
Usually I fall out with them, unfortunately. I tend to see people in black and white terms, and if I have a negative interaction with someone it'll often color my entire perception of them to the point where any further interaction is impossible. (I'm working on changing this - I'd like to be able to disagree and continue relating to someone, especially when they're someone I need to interact with, such as a teacher.)
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How do you cope with arguing? Do you ever win? (I'm presuming your social communication may not be as good as those who have an opposing view to you.)
Sometimes I win. It seems mostly if the person expressed a weakly-held, ill-informed opinion, they'll often concede that they weren't as knowledgable as me. But with a strongly-held opinion, I'm pretty sure it's impossible for anyone to change another person's mind just in one conversation. Still, I might have set the seeds of an idea that they'll adopt later.