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02 Nov 2017, 7:55 pm

That sounds scary drifting off at a crosswalk! Do you have help for when you apply for jobs? That's strange that you have been applying for 3 months and not one of them replied back.(Not that I would know, haven't worked in my life, just seems strange.)

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02 Nov 2017, 8:18 pm

Yeah, I'm always alarmed when I come back to reality and realize that I have no idea if I checked for cars at the roads I crossed. Fortunately I'm usually just walking around the neighborhood, not crossing busy intersections. Even just teaching my dog to stop has helped a lot because I have to pay attention to tell him to sit before we cross.

I took a class at a place that specializes in helping children and young adults with neurological disorders about employment, focusing on creating a resume. The people there said my resume looks good, and that's also where I learned about Web sites to use for job hunting. I had to search for six months or so after graduating college to get even the part-time cleaning job I had. I only heard back from two places during that time - one of them gave me a preliminary interview, which I promptly failed because I have a tremor that was really bad that day, so I looked "extremely terrified," even though I wasn't, and the other didn't have an interview and just hired me for the cleaning job. I had that for a little over a year before the company was sold. I just have terrible luck when it comes to applying for jobs, it seems :(

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02 Nov 2017, 8:59 pm

Either it is bad luck or the people training you weren't that good. Did they train you for interviews?(like practice runs.) I would think unless you are really good at "masking" during the practice session the teacher would have noticed something was up.

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02 Nov 2017, 9:02 pm

They did a little bit of interview preparation, but not a lot. I can't mask to save my life :) My problem right now is that I can't even get to the interview part.

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02 Nov 2017, 9:36 pm

I'm sorry they didn't help you more. It sucks that there isn't more things geared toward one-on-one teaching(well there is but it tend to be more expensive.)

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02 Nov 2017, 10:42 pm

Yeah, I might have to start looking into vocational rehabilitation soon, since that seems to be the only other thing that can help me with job stuff around here.

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02 Nov 2017, 11:07 pm

My mother told me I would have to do the same problem is, just thinking of calling a place raises my anxiety level over 9000!

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02 Nov 2017, 11:11 pm

My mom found a Web site with a form that I think I'd turn in in person. That's better than a phone call for me. My mom handles all the phone calls because I can't really speak understandably over the phone. My speech isn't always the clearest under the best of circumstances, and anxiety only makes it harder for me to speak understandably.

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03 Nov 2017, 12:03 am

I get all confused when talking on the phone. Even when places ask me simple questions like my phone number it takes me a while to answer! I have trouble filling out forms without assistance. How are you when it comes to forms?

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03 Nov 2017, 8:04 am

I'm OK with forms as long as I understand exactly what information they want - sometimes I'm unsure about the wording. My mom helps me with that, too, if need be.

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03 Nov 2017, 8:34 am

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03 Nov 2017, 10:20 am

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03 Nov 2017, 11:14 am

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