fleurdelily wrote:
.... the test seemed geared toward teens, and it's a little bit different perspective when you're 45. I don't need to dye my hair purple to be different. I just am. And it doesn't matter if I want to be different, I simply am ... furthermore, I am fully aware that "those people" who might not like it, well, they don't pay my rent. It's diffent when you don't have to attend high school, and don't live under mommy and daddy's roof. But as for non conformist, I am female, yet I drove a big truck over the road for a few years.... moved out of the house when I was 18-- which was in the middle of winter, and THEN I graduated high school (in other words, had my own apartment in high school) and never went back to the "parents" house. I am female, but never even considered procreating, and I don't own one single dress. But I am married, 17 years now.... to a man. And he's happy with what I am. whatever that is.
I agree. There were quite a few questions where I thought, "Well, I would've acted
this way toward a teacher back in high school, but toward a boss that pays my salary? It's not that important to fight." I mean, I always called out teachers when they outright told lies or misinformation (I was in love with Snopes.com, so to see something that was proven wrong being told to a class of impressionable teenagers really boiled my blood.) But if a manager at my job believes something crazy, like saying Tinkerbell exists and lives in his cupboard, I don't care to call him/her out on it so much. It's not like he's teaching a classroom of children that Tinkerbell is real. I don't mind someone having a weird personal opinion, but the moment their opinion starts being pushed onto others (especially onto kids), it's no longer "personal", and I get angry.
Btw, my scores were:
Need to be unique: 84%
Need to NOT conform: 89%
Willingness to express dissent: 59%
Overall score: 82%
I also agree with Rascal77s-
Rascal77s wrote:
and I'm not sure about the 'need to be unique', I just do my own thing. Is that really a need to be unique or just being who you are?
"Need to be unique" sounds like I'm being weird or different on purpose. No, I just can't help being who I am, and I like to act like myself, even if that's different from others. I'm not
trying to stand out in a crowd, but I know that's a consequence of me acting like myself, so I might as well embrace it.
The whole test just gave me a feeling like a bunch of neurotypical adults who forgot what it was like to be teenagers decided to try and find out what makes teens "tick." Like they're the parents of teens, and even though they did
the same damn things at their age, they're apparently at a loss of what to do and how to feel now that their own kids are acting out. So, develop a test to see where your kid falls in the black-and-white scale from good, quiet, obedient citizen, to hell-raising demon-spawn... At least, that's my impression...