Where_am_I wrote:
I'm really sorry with what happened to your Mother.
I wouldn't hesitate on the offer to sleep on a bed. You need to think about your health. I can't really give much advice beyond this because I'm clueless!
I am going to stick out the winter and try to fix things, but if that doesn't work, I think I will take her up on the offer. I know she could use the company and we haven't seen each other since the fall of 2019. She has emphasized that there is plenty of room at her empty house.
She also sent a check to help, but the bank put a "five day" hold on the check even though I just got another check from her that cleared fine like two months ago. They then informed me that they don't count weekends, so that would mean a week long delay and it would be ready the following Friday. Then they corrected themselves that they aren't counting the day I deposited it, so it will clear the monday after next.... So I had to go to a pawn shop to get money for critical supplies yesterday and now I am probably going to have to do that again soon because we are almost out of some other critical supplies and cannot wait till the check clears. They wouldn't even clear $50-100 for me.
Are there any charities or government support services you can turn to for help whilst you wait for your cheque to clear?