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18 Sep 2022, 3:15 pm

Sounds like you'd be good support for each other.


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18 Sep 2022, 3:20 pm

Thank you. I think I was her favorite seeing-eye human when I lived with her.

Edit: Also, now I can drive, so that would be a major help to her, especially now that she is living alone and given covid is still a thing.



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18 Sep 2022, 4:14 pm

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I'm really sorry with what happened to your Mother.

I wouldn't hesitate on the offer to sleep on a bed. You need to think about your health. I can't really give much advice beyond this because I'm clueless!



I am going to stick out the winter and try to fix things, but if that doesn't work, I think I will take her up on the offer. I know she could use the company and we haven't seen each other since the fall of 2019. She has emphasized that there is plenty of room at her empty house.

She also sent a check to help, but the bank put a "five day" hold on the check even though I just got another check from her that cleared fine like two months ago. They then informed me that they don't count weekends, so that would mean a week long delay and it would be ready the following Friday. Then they corrected themselves that they aren't counting the day I deposited it, so it will clear the monday after next.... So I had to go to a pawn shop to get money for critical supplies yesterday and now I am probably going to have to do that again soon because we are almost out of some other critical supplies and cannot wait till the check clears. They wouldn't even clear $50-100 for me.

Are there any charities or government support services you can turn to for help whilst you wait for your cheque to clear?


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18 Sep 2022, 5:04 pm

Probably, I mean our income is zero other than the checks my mom sent. But, I think we will probably just pawn something else. I am also going to stop in at the career center again and touch base with them this week as well as keep aplying to places independently. Of course, getting a job won't help with funds before the check clears, but I need to have one so that we do have an income source. Also, my wife doesn't even know about the check because my mom told me not to tell her. Which is another reason I need a job so that it isn't obvious.



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18 Sep 2022, 5:15 pm

That sounds like a good plan. Don't hesitate to reach out for help from charities etc. That's what they're there for.


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18 Sep 2022, 5:24 pm

Yeah, I know there are food banks in this county, but I would really prefer not to do that as it is a rural insuler community and we are pretty much the only outsiders. I'd worry that some of them would act like when the community thought that the Douglas's were broke on the show Green Acres. And even if noone said or did anything differntly towards us, I'm sure they would be gossiping.



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18 Sep 2022, 5:30 pm

Yeah I can understand that. I tend to give out this advice a lot as I refer people to such places as part of my job.


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18 Sep 2022, 5:51 pm

Ah, that makes sense. Sounds like an interesting job.



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19 Sep 2022, 1:41 am

It's rewarding. I also crochet socks for orphans and knickers for Radish.


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19 Sep 2022, 1:58 am

I can't actually tell if you are joking or not, but crocheted knickers sounds... uncomfortable... Like an itchy wool sweater, but not a sweater...



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19 Sep 2022, 2:45 am

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It's rewarding. I also crochet socks for orphans and knickers for Radish.


:lol: The knickers are a bit itchy I must admit.


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19 Sep 2022, 2:58 am

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It's rewarding. I also crochet socks for orphans and knickers for Radish.


:lol: The knickers are a bit itchy I must admit.


Lol. Well, at least they should be nice and warm going into winter.



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19 Sep 2022, 3:48 am

Reminds me of the old English proverb:

"Crocheted knickers be the best,
Warmer far than all the rest.
Though they make thee squirm and scratch,
Ne'er a bum chill shalt thou catch!"



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19 Sep 2022, 5:14 am

I think I've won guys


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19 Sep 2022, 5:18 am

jennyishere wrote:
Reminds me of the old English proverb:

"Crocheted knickers be the best,
Warmer far than all the rest.
Though they make thee squirm and scratch,
Ne'er a bum chill shalt thou catch!"


:lol: Brilliant.


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19 Sep 2022, 5:27 am

Thank you! :salut: