Getting to know each other, Dino-style
What is your first name? Tony
Age: 47
Location: Berkshire, UK
Current perseverations: Writing custom campaign rules for "Wings of War"
When did you discover AS? 2007
Do you have other psych diagnoses? No
Do you have a degree? No, never finished it
Kids? 2 & 2 Grandchildren
Favorite music, other than NIN : Genesis, Pink Floyd, Black Sabbath, Rush, Rainbow Nickleback, etc.....
Job? Assistant Director of IT
Relationship with significant other, past or present? 23 year failed marriage, now living with new partner for 6 years.
Plans for the future? build extension for study & workshop
Anything else you feel is pertinent: Nandos extra hot piri-piri chicken with Spicey olives & garlic. Mmmmm yum!
What is your first name? Jennifer
Age: 33
Location: Lawton, OK
Current perseverations: Dogs, Numbers, the Medical Field
When did you discover AS? November 2006
Do you have other psych diagnoses? OCD
Do you have a degree? Not yet
Kids? 2-- 9 and 5
Favorite music, other than NIN Anything
Job? Student/Housewife
Relationship with significant other, past or present? Married, NT
Plans for the future? Actually have a job
Anything else you feel is pertinent:nope
What is your first name? Darci
Age: 43
Location: Oklahoma City,Ok Area
Current perseverations: Historical Cross Stitch, Chickens and and other birds, birds have been a thing with me my whole life. World of Warcraft,
When did you discover AS?
Do you have other psych diagnoses? previously I have been in and out of therapy since age 11 with Dysthima to Major Depression and Borderline Personailty Disorder.
Do you have a degree? AS in Commercial Art.
Kids? 1 19
Favorite music, other than NIN Early Dave Matthews Band-Lilywhite, Verve Pipe/The Verve, Pearl Jam, Mad Season although they only had one CD.
Job? Currently I do internal collections for a utility company.
Relationship with significant other, past or present? Married for 7 years wanting to be divorced for 6.5 years of it. Current long term relationship 13 years eletrical engineer to give you an idea.
Plans for the future? Go back to school to get a BA in CS
Anything else you feel is pertinent: Fave books The Dark Tower Series Stephen King, Imajica-Clive Barker, The Talisman-King-Straub
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"Experience is not what happens to you; it's what you do with what happens to you." Aldous Huxley
What is your first name? Sharon
Age: 34
Location: TX, NJ
Current perseverations: looking at trees, my ipod, collecting, rocking
When did you discover AS? It was suggested for some time, confirmed recently
Do you have other psych diagnoses? like depression? anxiety disorder?
Do you have a degree? left one credit shy
Kids? nope
Favorite music, other than NIN. who else is there? Tool
Job? FA
Relationship with significant other, past or present? yep, past
Plans for the future? help please
Anything else you feel is pertinent: nothing left to say
Age: 51
Location: Santa Fe, NM
Current perseverations: Ironically, autism has fascinated me since I was in my 20's, although I didn't know about Asperger's until recently. Also learning differences such as dyslexia have been a major fascination. This is a good thing since my 7 yo is probably on the spectrum somewhere. Other major interests are books, especially science fiction/fantasy, soap making, cosmetics even if I don't actually wear them, religion (which covers a whole lot more than just organized religion eg, why are humans religious in the first place?) and just about anything that grabs my interest. I love the internet.
When did you discover AS? I've been interested in autism for a very long time, but it wasn't until recently that I came across Asperger's in an attempt to figure out my daughter's difficulties with school. Well, it explains a lot of my differences too.
Do you have other psych diagnoses? Major depression (yeah duh), bipolar II (not), ADHD (probably not, never mind the official dx)
Do you have a degree? BA 2005, Religious Studies with a Women Studies minor
Kids? DS 31 and his wife, plus my four grandkids: 8, 5, 2, and 14 mo. DD 28. DS2 17. Kayli 7. I don't know that any of my kids are entirely NT. DS2 has developmental delays, especially in speech. Kayli may be on the spectrum. Probably.
Favorite music, other than NIN

Job? not at the moment, but I'm an accountant
Relationship with significant other, past or present? Yes
Plans for the future? To get a job that more or less suits me, and to do what I can to ease Kayli's way. If it happens that I help ease others' like her, so much the better.
Anything else you feel is pertinent:
What is your first name? - Mike
Age: 50
Location: Minneapolis, MN
Current perseverations: AS, fitness (walking) - the list actually used to be quite long, but these two are taking up all my time, lately.
When did you discover AS? "Discovered" it about 18 years ago, but actively avoided looking into the mirror, so to speak. About a month ago, I decided that my life might actually be better if I owned up to what I already knew subconsciously - and so far, it appears I was right!
Do you have other psych diagnoses? No.
Do you have a degree? Bachelor of Music Education
Kids? No.
Favorite music, other than NIN - Kate Bush, Fiona Apple, Poe, The Dresden Dolls, Liz Phair, Kate Voegele, ... (love female vocalists!! !)
Job? Technical Illustrator/CAD
Relationship with significant other, past or present? A few - never to the point of marriage or living together. Most recent was 1979-81.
Plans for the future? I would really like to find a way to connect closely to another human being (I am working on it, but it can be a struggle.)
Anything else you feel is pertinent: Not that I can think of at the moment.
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"I am likely to miss the main event, if I stop to cry & complain again.
So I will keep a deliberate pace - Let the damn breeze dry my face."
- Fiona Apple - "Better Version of Me"
Hello ppl, I've always thought i was different, and now i know i am, I saw a physcologist yesterday afternoon in Covenrty, UK, and after a 3 hour talk and discusion, and a test looking at eyes, was told, yes you have it.
Its now 7.30am and I'm still in a state of flux. On the one hand I feel relived, on the other, im thinking about the future.
Maxine, the person who tested me said that in AS ppl, the part of the brain that intuitivley 'knows', doesn't work, and its left to the logical part to think things through, and that often, a bottle-neck happens, whereby the thought(s) never get processed by the brain.
It gets overwelmed, and therefore, the info is lost. Early days for me, I just want to make contact with like minded people now. No Bullshitters plz. I'm not sure how the site works, so its another learning curve, but I can cope with that.
I'm fairly easygoing and humerous, iq is about 127
Not that iq means anything really. If you wish to contact me, just to say hello or whatever thats fine.
Paul
What is your first name? Ilia
Age: 40
Location: Gold Coast Australia
Current perseverations: Reading, Tom Waits, work, work, graphic design, typography
When did you discover AS? About 4 years ago when my son was dx. I read the literature and all the jigsaw pieces fell into place. Only got an official diagnosis a couple of months ago though.
Do you have other psych diagnoses? Major depression, anxiety, Borderline personality disorder - think that was a misdx, but apparently very common mistake with aspies.
Do you have a degree? Ba Industrial Design
Kids? 1 son 13 yrs
Favorite music, other than NIN - Tom Waits, Tom Waits, Tom Waits....
Job? Graphic designer for company, freelance designer in my evenings and teaching in the bits in between
Relationship with significant other, past or present? Quite a few - could never get that relationship business quite worked out. Married once by mistake. I got better but....
Plans for the future? What future? Is there a future? Damn - why didn't anyone tell me!
Anything else you feel is pertinent: I'll think about it, but for now, nothing
Ok, I reckon I've been here long enough, so here goes...
What is your first name? Lee... no, actually that's my middle name, but it's what I use.
Age: 40
Location: Alabama, USA
Current perseverations: disability advocacy, sci-fi/fantasy literature and film, real-time strategy games, psychology (and why relationships never seem to work right for me, which leads to the "self-help" books), downloading free software
When did you discover AS? My son, now age 17, was diagnosed 7 years ago. My 2nd ex-wife (not his mother) brought it to my attention that it was thought to be hereditary about a year later, which then explained a LOT of things in my life that bothered me, like about people and why they do the things they do. Now I know I don't always have to understand why; I'm just different.
Do you have other psych diagnoses? Profound depression (with suicidal tendencies), passive-submissive/borderline personality (both before the AS diagnosis)
Do you have a degree? Associate Degree in Applied Electronics Technology
Kids? They're fantastic with salsa... Seriously, my son is 17 and my daughter is 15. Son has AS, daughter had in-utero stroke causing some slight learning disability.
Favorite music? Actually, I do like NIN and other industrial style music, Limp Bizkit, Linkin Park, Pink Floyd, Eminem... but mostly I love music without lyrics. Bach is best, especially harpsicord and organ music... also retro computer music found at http://remix.kwed.org/... you can actually listen to it without downloading it here.
Job? Lead Operator ("floor supervisor") for a 411/operator services call center for the past 2 years.
Relationship with significant other, past or present? Been married twice, occasional girlfriend after 2nd marriage, currently no relationship of any kind.
Plans for the future? Can't make plans. Too frustrating when they don't work out right.
Anything else you feel is pertinent: Had hyperlexia as a child; still have hypersensitivity to odors and bright lights, which makes grocery shopping very tense. Still have gross motor coordination problems--you should see me run into the cubicle walls on a daily basis...
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"His age was indeterminate. But in cynicism and general world weariness, which is a sort of carbon dating of the personality, he was about 7,000 years old."-Terry Pratchett
Age: 46
Current perseverations: Photography, exploring interesting cities, perfecting sushi technique
When did you discover AS? Couple years ago, mentioned by someone on the web
Do you have other psych diagnoses? NO
Do you have a degree? English Linguistics B.A., English teaching diploma
Kids? NO
Favorite music, other than NIN - Lithurgic, salsa, French romantic, and anything else I like
Job? Customer support at international telecom company
Relationship with significant other, past or present? Divorced
Plans for the future? Do you still make plans at my age?
Anything else you feel is pertinent: No, I'm impertinent
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So-called white lies are like fake jewelry. Adorn yourself with them if you must, but expect to look cheap to a connoisseur.
AnnaLemma
Deinonychus

Joined: 15 Mar 2008
Age: 75
Gender: Female
Posts: 384
Location: Holocene critter country
Age: 59
Location: SoCal
Current perseverations: amateur naturalist, trail running, cycling, birding, wildlife video, archery, medieval period, Tolkein literature
When did you discover AS? A few years ago on an episode of "Becker"! I wondered what it was and read about it.
Do you have other psych diagnoses? no
Do you have a degree? Bachelors
Kids? no
Favorite music? Not as into music as most people! I like early classical, Celtic, bluegrass, a few other genres
Job? retired aerospace engineer, but I take on fun projects now and then
Relationship with significant other, past or present? married three decades to nt
Plans for the future? to learn the name of every animal, insect, plant, and rock in my immediate surroundings
Anything else you feel is pertinent: I was very aspie-ish as a child, blended in during my teens, 20's & 30's, survived a brain aneurysm at 40, and began becoming aspie-ish again. Now I see good qualities in it and learn to deal with the less good aspects
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The plural of "anecdote" is not "data".
jennifer3
51
west
reading who done it and crime novels, I have collected hundreds of books on children's learning disabilities and how to help them learn, I perseverate on whatever I am talking about, like a broken record that keeps on playing and this causes me problems socially,
I discovered Aspergers by tutoring a young boy who had Aspergers, his mom thought I had it, I had so many problems that I finally went to an Autism specialist who diagnosed me
I have also been diagnosed with Bipolar II, and depression
I actually have a Bachelors, Masters and Law degree. My social problems have made it where I cannot keep a job. I have been pretty good at school, and at thebeginning, I could work ok, but now I realize that my inability to keep a job for long over many years is the result of my problems
I have an adult daughter who just had a baby
I have had great trouble with relationships, both marriage and non-marriage. Currently, I am in a relationship that sometimes goes well and sometimes does not
My plans for the future include doing some more tutoring and being a good grandmother to my grandson
Newbie here, seemed like the best place to put my intro post!
What is your first name? Carry
Age: 37
Location: Seattle, WA
Current perseverations: Knitting, reading biographies, Do I have AS?
When did you discover AS? Last month, though I've always known I was different
Do you have other psych diagnoses? Not diagnosed, think that I also have minor OCD
Do you have a degree? Nope
Kids? Yes
Favorite music, other than NIN. Depends on my mood (though never NIN - I leave that crap up to the wife)
Job? Executive Assistant at a nonprofit
Relationship with significant other, past or present? I am in a domestic partnership
Plans for the future? I keep trying to have specific plans, I have lists of things that I want out of my future
Anything else you feel is pertinent: Am working on being officially diagnosed
What is your first name? Anthony
Age: 21
Location: Utah, USA
Current perseverations: Hand motions from tapping fingers rhythmically to tossing pencils\markers, and rare hand flapping.
When did you discover AS? Age 20
Do you have other psych diagnoses? Falsely diagnosed with social anxiety prior to my discovering AS.
Do you have a degree? Working on one.
Kids? Someday before I'm 30.
Favorite music, other than NIN Laughing? Instrumental Folk Guitar, Hardcore, Jazz, Symphony, among countless other genres.
Job? Math Tutor.
Relationship with significant other, past or present? Yes? A few high school relationships in the past, none currently.
Plans for the future? Bachelor's Degree. Well paying job that I enjoy, enabling me to travel the world and support a family.
Anything else you feel is pertinent: What does NIN Laughing mean? I love art and writing. Currently seeking adult female aspie friendship that may develop into more, so feel free to PM me - even though I know coming out and saying it like this will not yield any results.