blessedmom wrote:
I too do not like people at my house, and so I simply don't extend invitations.
I do my best to keep people from visiting my home.
My comfort zone is at the fringe of where everyone else is.
I need lots of alone time, this apartment all to myself is bliss! But now I have two 'friends' who are inviting themselves over, and have even started dropping in without phoning first. This may be fine for NTs, but not me. My neighbor dropped in and stayed several hours, then later knocked on my door and wanted a ride to McD's. Neither of them have a car, and I'm too way too easily talked into rides and such, but this time I declined and she got offended...!
And now my 18yr-old son has worn out his mother and is thinking of moving in here...
yes, Zanne, libraries are great: surrounded by books and quiet people!
Postpaleo: helping people with these problems is what the world needs more of. (Oh, and cow manure. I used to shovel those aromatic hydrocarbons out of the barn, & my lungs are fine!)
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