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Belle77
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05 Dec 2007, 7:24 pm

I totally understand how frustrating it can be.



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05 Dec 2007, 7:32 pm

I just get so alone sometimes
and most women think all guys are the same so I have really a slim chance
how many aspie men actually get married and are happy?
not a lot I dont think



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05 Dec 2007, 8:03 pm

:cry: I'm sorry Kilroy. :cry:
I believe that my dad was an Aspie, and he obviously got married. But it wasn't a happy one...then he killed himself.



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05 Dec 2007, 8:18 pm

well I don't have any hope nor do I try anymore
I don't feel so so bad at it
but don't actually think it will happen and if it does it will be like the Genesis song That's All



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05 Dec 2007, 9:17 pm

You're making me so sad. :(
But I do understand hopelessness.
That song is quite appropriate in relation to my first marriage, except it'd be from my ex's perspective.



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05 Dec 2007, 10:39 pm

ehh...I just have never had anyone ever interested in me so why have hope really?
its not just gonna happen one day
people have always told me it won't



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05 Dec 2007, 11:05 pm

Are you sure that you haven't had people interested in you? Maybe they were too shy to make a move.
Ummm, and that's not cool for people to tell you that it won't happen for you. :evil:



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05 Dec 2007, 11:08 pm

no I am sure I have always been the outcast
people tell me girld won't come up to me because of my additude or body language, but I wonder why would they want me talking to them? :?
girls just don't like me that way...
I've had female friends, they've always had bf's though
and I know I was NEVER considered as an option...
cause I don't got nothing to offer
yes I can be sweet and caring
but I'm aspie
there are lots of sweet non aspies out there...
what makes me so damn special?



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06 Dec 2007, 12:28 am

Kilroy wrote:
what makes me so damn special?

Well, I don't know that yet, but I'm trying to find out. :)

I've always been better friends with males than with females.



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06 Dec 2007, 12:33 am

you'll be looking forever
there's nothing that makes me better then some normal sweet guy



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06 Dec 2007, 12:34 am

'Normal' guys tend to suck.



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06 Dec 2007, 12:36 am

well they get all the girls so...I don't think they do



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06 Dec 2007, 12:38 am

But they probably get the lame, boring girls. A 'normal' guy wouldn't get me anymore. My husband has ADHD and is very abnormal.



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06 Dec 2007, 12:44 am

whatever-still no girls are calling me and I am weird



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06 Dec 2007, 2:00 am

Weird can be good...for the right person. :(



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06 Dec 2007, 2:15 am

well then I am not the right person :roll: