Friend associating with a psychopath

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I normally go onto a chatroom regularly and have even made some new friends who I talk to on a regular basis. One of these friends, has Asperger's like myself and is really intelligent and talented. Among other things, he invited a woman onto this chatroom who has been in the same Asperger's Support group that he and I have gone to in the past. Like both of us, she claims to have Asperger's Syndrome and is self-diagnosed. Although he invited her into the chatroom, he claims that he does not trust her which was a few months ago.

Yet, I had spoken with other people who had associated with her and they said that she has a history of compulsive lying and using people. She has even stayed at the homes of two known associates of mine who are also involved in the support group and mentioned that she has a habit of disregarding and disrespecting other people's wishes by not leaving when asked. According to one of these associates, this woman sexually abused her husband who is severely disabled by walking and speak and therefore did it when she was not home. Finally, there was word that this woman had threatened and was planning on killing the acquaintance this woman could have the spouse all to herself. In response, my casual friend went to court to get this person out of her house, while the disabled husband typed on a computer during court that she had performed sexual assault on him. The results were that this woman had three counts of restraining orders placed against her. Finally, my associate mentioned that she is indeed a psychopath and has appeared to enjoy hurting other people and really does not have Autism or Asperger's syndrome and is really a predator out to get what she wants.

I then contacted another associate who expressed to me that she only thinks about herself and no one else and is also known to compulsively lie and twist the truth a lot. Even more so, she also mentioned that that like the other associate mentioned that she would not leave or obey evictions. This associate also mentioned that this woman had manipulated she and her late husband in telling them that the only way she would leave was if she was sick or injured. So, the late husband brought this woman to the hospital and left her there and made her go stay in a shelter for homeless people.

I had also warned the moderators and leaders that this was not someone whom they would want on the chatroom due to the past events and currents facts about this person. Meanwhile, my friends on the chat site had mentioned to me that she was starting to babble about things that did not make sense and that she wanted someone online to help her. However, she left for a few months which left me thinking that someone banned on from the chatroom.

I had also warned my friend about her and he seemed to call me and text me for the other associate's phone numbers so that he could find out what type of person that she is. However, it has been a few months and she suddenly started showing up since late Friday night, and my friend is talking to her as if he knows nothing.

How do I go about trying to get this predator off the chatroom? Do I call the police and and keep them on alert? Do I continue to contact the administrators? Please let me know because I don't feel safe being around her and especially not my friend who invites her into the chatroom.

Well, if you are willing to become a target of the psychopath, then go ahead and be her guest. I've tried reasoning with people that go for psychopaths, but they are usually in too deep. Regardless of what you do, if your friend doesn't get turned around, then she will have a permanent in. If she controls him, she controls the situation.

He knows that this woman is dangerous and brought her into the chat site because he doesn't trust her. However, I feel that he is rather clueless to her sorts of behaviors and the things that she has done in the past. I have already warned him twice and even given him a few phone numbers of the two people who have fallen victim to her behavior. He even texted me in telling me that he would be willing to speak to them himself about her.