Website against Asperger's Syndrome: HeartlessAspergers.com

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18 Mar 2017, 5:40 am

probably "Katy Ford" (aka Adelyn Birch???)
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Broken-relatio ... +aspergers



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18 Mar 2017, 5:45 am

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18 Mar 2017, 6:26 am

ASPartOfMe wrote:
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It's BS. I want to know the name of the person who runs this site, she deserves to be held responsible.


Maxine Aston


Maxine Aston coined and publicized "Affective Deprivation Disorder". I have seen no evidence iheartless is her site.

I agree. I looked her up, and while she is quoted in the site, it would be very strange if it was Aston's - she herself is a therapist who works with people with autism. She's actually written books on relationships for people with Asperger's.

norwegiansun wrote:
probably "Katy Ford" (aka Adelyn Birch???)
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Broken-relatio ... +aspergers

This does look promising... I'll look more into this

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unfortunately, the info here might be misleading. I googled the phone number, and it's listed all over the internet for "scam warnings"



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19 Mar 2017, 4:13 am

i recommend you dont contact the author of the heartlessaspergers site.

She is an evil person! And she is not alone! She cooperates with a large group of evil people(probably with a lot of money!)supporting her and her site.



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19 Mar 2017, 4:18 am

norwegiansun wrote:
probably "Katy Ford" (aka Adelyn Birch???)
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Broken-relatio ... +aspergers



Neah because she also quoted that website in her book and she says her ex isn't a bad man and she used a different name for him because she didn't want to destroy him. That doesn't sound like someone who made that website.


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19 Mar 2017, 9:40 am

League_Girl wrote:
norwegiansun wrote:
probably "Katy Ford" (aka Adelyn Birch???)
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Broken-relatio ... +aspergers



Neah because she also quoted that website in her book and she says her ex isn't a bad man and she used a different name for him because she didn't want to destroy him. That doesn't sound like someone who made that website.


she is problably a psychopath, very good to trick people with an agreeable persona.



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20 Mar 2017, 5:37 am

League_Girl wrote:
norwegiansun wrote:
probably "Katy Ford" (aka Adelyn Birch???)
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Broken-relatio ... +aspergers



Neah because she also quoted that website in her book and she says her ex isn't a bad man and she used a different name for him because she didn't want to destroy him. That doesn't sound like someone who made that website.


I can in fact confirm that it is Adelyn Birch, the one who runs the "Psychopaths and Love" blog, however, though I know that "Adelyn Birch" is a pseudonym, there is no evidence that she and Katy Ford are the same person. In fact, I seem to recall her username on ASPartners at Delphi being Marissa something.



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20 Mar 2017, 5:39 am

norwegiansun wrote:
League_Girl wrote:
norwegiansun wrote:
probably "Katy Ford" (aka Adelyn Birch???)
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Broken-relatio ... +aspergers



Neah because she also quoted that website in her book and she says her ex isn't a bad man and she used a different name for him because she didn't want to destroy him. That doesn't sound like someone who made that website.


she is problably a psychopath, very good to trick people with an agreeable persona.


She's not Katy Ford.



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21 Mar 2017, 4:19 pm

Jono wrote:
norwegiansun wrote:
League_Girl wrote:
norwegiansun wrote:
probably "Katy Ford" (aka Adelyn Birch???)
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Broken-relatio ... +aspergers



Neah because she also quoted that website in her book and she says her ex isn't a bad man and she used a different name for him because she didn't want to destroy him. That doesn't sound like someone who made that website.


she is problably a psychopath, very good to trick people with an agreeable persona.


She's not Katy Ford.


maybe they cooperate...



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23 Mar 2017, 3:32 am

What is that old doctor's quote? If you hear hoofbeats, think horses not zebras.

I do not think the site creator is part of a mass conspiracy nor does she have ulterior motives.

What happened was she had a bad experience with a person who was autistic, she found other people who had bad experiences and decided to make this site as a warning based on what they experienced. What they experienced happened. If someone were sexually assaulted by a man in her childhood, would you fault her for being afraid of men?

People have had bad experiences with alcoholics, drug addicts, schizophrenic people, schizotypal people, dependant personality disorder, bipolar people, people with early onset dementia, and people with alzheimers. I could list more to prove the following point I will get to. But since people recognize the problem, they can intervene.

I read a part in Aston's book where an elderly couple found out one had ASD, so he went and got diagnosed. All they gave him was a pamphlet and sent him off. No intervention, support, or medication. His wife later made a complaint that if he were schizophrenic or manic depressive they would at least do something more.

I do not have much advice for anyone here who is in a relationship since I am not in one or interested. But for the posters here who are not in relationships or not interested. I think the answer for y'all is simple. The big first step it to just acknowledge it is a disorder and recognize what happened to someone else happened, that having a disorder can cause problems, just play by the same rules.



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24 Mar 2017, 2:01 pm

Wolfram87 wrote:
Amebix wrote:
It's BS. I want to know the name of the person who runs this site, she deserves to be held responsible.


Maxine Aston


It's not Maxine Aston.
She's the one who diagnosed me, she in no way holds these kinds of views and she is so much more intelligent than the author of this site.
When I met her, she came across as very understanding and supportive of people with Autism, and she certainly does not think that we lack empathy or understanding.
It is wrong to associate her with the kind of rubbish that is being put out by that website. Please don't.


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24 Mar 2017, 8:32 pm

I was originally under the impression that she was behind this site. It seems she is merely frequently quoted by it. Aston is, however, the originator of the CADD malarkey, so you'll have to excuse me if I don't hold her in very high regard.


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25 Mar 2017, 5:07 pm

i want to be clear about one thing: aspergers is a condition we need help to overcome. But a human is more than the diagnose. :-)



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25 Mar 2017, 7:49 pm

norwegiansun wrote:
i want to be clear about one thing: aspergers is a condition we need help to overcome. But a human is more than the diagnose. :-)


It is part of out brain so it can not be truly "overcome", better to work with it.


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26 Mar 2017, 3:27 am

ASPartOfMe wrote:
norwegiansun wrote:
i want to be clear about one thing: aspergers is a condition we need help to overcome. But a human is more than the diagnose. :-)


It is part of out brain so it can not be truly "overcome", better to work with it.


https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neuroplasticity