Dear Autistic Self-Advocacy Network (ASAN)
Well, yes, I figured out your opinion here.
I have great news for you, I know how much you do not like me being confrontational with you, so I am not going to speak to you anymore. That would be rather pointless. I am just going to leave this link here and hope people read it. I am not bumping it or anything of that sort. Apparently your views have not changed over a year and a half, and that quote was directed not at ASAN, but the people who believe in such advocacy. I question what the point of your posts are sometimes.
I would also like to point out that all the other things were done as reactionary to your conduct. I stepped in when you personally attacked people or implied that they did not have autism. There were a lot of things you said that I just ignored - please remember that.
It is sad - I personally do not like ASAN much either. But to sit here and let you run these tactics is not in my nature. Good bye. I also stopped watching the thread so do not reply since it wastes keystrokes.
I was given sufficient evidence in a previous thread that ci doesn't really know what he's talking about nor does he believe what he does know. He merely enjoys complaining loudly and frequently enough to drawn attention to himself.
My personal opinion though is that we need to either make a clean split between Hight-functioning ASAN-type people and Low to Mid-functioning Autism Speaks-type people and realize (DSM-V change or not) that this is all childish and doesn't help anyone.
Do you think that "ASAN type" people have a disorder or just have a neurological difference? Nathan seems convinced that the "high functioning" ASAN people shouldn't be labeled as having a disorder, and there does appear to be an opinion there may still be a subclinical use for Aspergers outside of the DSMV to separate new cases that don't fit the new disorder criteria. However existing cases of Aspergers are expected to fall within the new criteria.
I'm not comfortable with eliminating the higher functioning people from disorder status, because while someone that is in their early twenties with a mild form of Autism may function well in life, there is plenty of evidence that things may get harder down the line, and a person may eventually need support. A medical history in this case could eventually be a life or death issue.
I don't see the polarizing issue ever going away; no one was going to tell me there was something "wrong" with me in my 20's through 40's, until I realized the effort I put forth to convince myself I was okay. Given an opportunity to do it over again, I would still have never gone in for a diagnosis, early in life.
Everyone wants to be okay, and ASAN helps some people feel better about themselves. I think the happiest medium would be that there are some people with Autism that have a functionally disabling form of it and there are some that function well with it, not unlike Epilepsy.
This seems to be what the DSMV is attempting to do. I think it is a much safer longterm option than if the decision would have been to eliminate current high functioning people with Aspergers from the new criteria.
There is no telling what people have and do not have. There is an identity associated with autism at times in politics. Whether or not a subjective individual qualifies for the new criteria when they were previously diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome cannot be determined by me nor is the criterion of interest to me. My goal was to grab some folks attention and in doing so draw them to the perceptive of rights, dignities and treatment rationale. As I explained to another poster I'm frankly simply upset with people claiming to have Asperger's online who otherwise have careers and function very well whom find insult toward people otherwise trying to help people like me and all the way on the other end of the spectrum of profound impairment differing from simply substantial as defined by federal law. Every individual in need should receive help in the ideal world and help should always be made available by means of a compassionate resolve and not whenever possible "your a bigot so provide it" types of approaches.
The people that otherwise function well and whom use autism in politics for their advantage and go up against advocacy for individuals who manifest more life limiting symptoms to their choices then need to step back and think about it. They need to help with other rights not centered on their own gain and in the case of ASAN and corporations handing out jobs to otherwise proven to be functionality extremely able was a down right slap in the face and kick of dirt in the eyes as the saying goes. First they call people who help pity, bigots and so on then they use "autism" which is more classically known as the original diagnoses to serve the highest functioning whilst alienating advocacy for those in more need. It's like stealing something called compassion and framing it as pity and taking away "hope" for those that really seem to already have it and be insulted at any inclination of inferiority of people with autism that need help to be included beyond capable already of self-inclusion. The reason I say so is compassion which they call pity and typical everyday community members that march whom they call bigots are the key to compassionate transitional inclusion and relevant hope.
I think they have attempted to steal in order to control aspects of the public psyche and only have achieved in part the removal from public expression compassionate means because it simply insults their self-images of autism as very high functioning individuals. A great injustice is underway and it cannot be allowed to persist. ASAN cannot and should not dictate autism awareness simply due to abortion politics relating to the image of autism nor some kind of version of dignity rights which seems quite obviously to me counter productive.
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The people that otherwise function well and whom use autism in politics for their advantage and go up against advocacy for individuals who manifest more life limiting symptoms to their choices then need to step back and think about it. They need to help with other rights not centered on their own gain and in the case of ASAN and corporations handing out jobs to otherwise proven to be functionality extremely able was a down right slap in the face and kick of dirt in the eyes as the saying goes. First they call people who help pity, bigots and so on then they use "autism" which is more classically known as the original diagnoses to serve the highest functioning whilst alienating advocacy for those in more need. It's like stealing something called compassion and framing it as pity and taking away "hope" for those that really seem to already have it and be insulted at any inclination of inferiority of people with autism that need help to be included beyond capable already of self-inclusion. The reason I say so is compassion which they call pity and typical everyday community members that march whom they call bigots are the key to compassionate transitional inclusion and relevant hope.
I think they have attempted to steal in order to control aspects of the public psyche and only have achieved in part the removal from public expression compassionate means because it simply insults their self-images of autism as very high functioning individuals. A great injustice is underway and it cannot be allowed to persist. ASAN cannot and should not dictate autism awareness simply due to abortion politics relating to the image of autism nor some kind of version of dignity rights which seems quite obviously to me counter productive.
There are some with Autism that would argue that it is not a disorder, but a condition of neurological difference. Not unlike genius, introvert, extrovert. It appears in the future that for those that do not want a DSMV diagnosis of a disorder, that they may be able to seek to be labeled with the subclinical label of Aspergers. Strictly an option; one day there may be an internet site, just for those people that identify themselves as such.
Yes but the hamburger and bottom verbal slur they may not enjoy.
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im personaly not offended by the asan or autism speaks.i just dont get the much ado bout nothin.i think either org is perfect but i dont get what all the big deal is.ci i do agree that sometimes it seems like you talk without saying anything although at other times you have profound points.i say to both asan and autism speaks haters.spend more time away from autistic culture and see how many people just dont care.spend some time on the general disability advocay sites and see how trivialized anyone with autism or mental retardation are.im talking to AS speaks haters just as much too.get a life everyone and grow up
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I spend allot of time working with the general public and my point is calling them bigots or acting like they are simply bigots when they are caring is wrong headed and very destructive. Mr. Vermont You have voiced opposition to Autism Speaks and ASAN. You flip flop to much. I personally will never be party to ASAN who calls people bigots without facts and to just get attention. I do not want anything to do with and other people do not want anything to do with selective abortion issues which ASAN uses to get attention. Also in my real-life that is full of humor which is a needed component in life to assist with creating progress and with my record of achievement in advocacy should the likes of ASAN show up and want to do anything like they have done in those protest here my response will be in media and broadcasting. It will also be availible in a counter protest with flyers outlining their modality that people with disabilities hand out. It is a very rare find the kinds of mentality derived of them which comprises ASAN in individuals with disabilities I work around where I live.
Once you have a stable and consistant point of view I'd take your remarks seriously. Either you want them both to fall or like them both. I think your just nervious to show support for one but not the other and it's some kind of popularity game. Instead of my saying to you get a life how about make up your mind and move on in life.
A republican such as you would love to spoil the love of others so they will resort to dislike. That means they will not fund research or programs. The ASAN approach is so bad at times it could be argued the leadership is two faced and others are unwittingly going along with it. I don't believe most republicans or even democrats are like that. It's just a perfect storm of good and bad advocacy. Besides going along with the psycho-social division creating to me is not only unethical but mind altering propaganda. We both know the world is imperfect and yes discrimination does exist but it's how you handle it that counts.
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i have never never ever flip floped you know from our very first conversation that i have been advocating moderation,cooperation and solidarity from the beginning.i have not changed,im against in fighting that has been my psition since day one
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I'm not comfortable with eliminating the higher functioning people from disorder status, because while someone that is in their early twenties with a mild form of Autism may function well in life, there is plenty of evidence that things may get harder down the line, and a person may eventually need support. A medical history in this case could eventually be a life or death issue.
I don't see the polarizing issue ever going away; no one was going to tell me there was something "wrong" with me in my 20's through 40's, until I realized the effort I put forth to convince myself I was okay. Given an opportunity to do it over again, I would still have never gone in for a diagnosis, early in life.
Everyone wants to be okay, and ASAN helps some people feel better about themselves. I think the happiest medium would be that there are some people with Autism that have a functionally disabling form of it and there are some that function well with it, not unlike Epilepsy.
This seems to be what the DSMV is attempting to do. I think it is a much safer longterm option than if the decision would have been to eliminate current high functioning people with Aspergers from the new criteria.
I certainly believe that I have a disorder, because it messed up my whole life. Before I discovered that I had AS, I was told the following instead:
1. I was strange
2. I was lazy
3. I suffered form depression
4. I was rude and difficult.
5. I had bipolar II
6. I had ADHD
I wanted to die frequently and I hated myself for not having the courage to kill myself. I had few friends and the few I did have, I did not trust and, therefore did not treat very well. I was both controlling and distant in relationships. I wanted pull my head off after hearing the same phrases, songs, etc. in my mind repeatedly for days on end. I could not break myself from routine in order to do things in a way that made actual sense.
I was prescribe medications that gave me side effects,. but made me feel no different, much less better. I was hospitalized after I could do
nothing but pace the room for three days after an unexpected life change.
So, yeah... I feel a little disabled.. However, for me, a sense of emotional support and a feeling of belonging to a larger community of others like me helps more than anything. So, for me, the self-advocacy movement is a good thing. I feel much better knowing that I can be proud of myself. I realize fully that that does not work for everyone. Many people on the spectrum need much more than encouragement. They and their families need help.
Perhaps the best route is to have one advocacy/awareness group that can peform boith roles and that realizes we are not all the same. There are as many differences between peopple on the spectrum as there are among neurtypical people and one size does not fit all.
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Nathan may not have a Ph.d, but would imagine that more people think about these issues, than did before he came along. For those that understand and live Autism as a disorder, the fact that someone is presenting that point of view, might make some that are not higher functioning more comfortable with being here. . .
Very well put.
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That describes a lot of my relationship with friends. Just learning, even though people are different from me, some are trustworthy, some are not has been a big help. Also the idea of taking things in a series of medium steps, although far from perfect on this count.
Perhaps like you, the idea of Asperger's / Autism Spectrum as a conceptual whole as been helpful and has explained seemingly different things about me that didn't really make sense before.
I suppose I am high-functioning (in some areas, sure not in others!). In particular, in addition to friendship and loneliness, I have struggled mightily on the job front. And sometimes it's not me, sometimes it's a workplace where co-workers or managers are just first-rate jackasses (including this very negative dynamic, in some faux version of group solidarity, people team up against someone who is different, and once this starts, it rolls, for people are afraid of being labelled themselves), and this is more common in crummy jobs than in good jobs, although a lot of random variation on both. So, as one partial remedy, it's not overinvesting in the job. Once again, the idea of medium steps.
I'm not comfortable with eliminating the higher functioning people from disorder status, because while someone that is in their early twenties with a mild form of Autism may function well in life, there is plenty of evidence that things may get harder down the line, and a person may eventually need support. A medical history in this case could eventually be a life or death issue.
I don't see the polarizing issue ever going away; no one was going to tell me there was something "wrong" with me in my 20's through 40's, until I realized the effort I put forth to convince myself I was okay. Given an opportunity to do it over again, I would still have never gone in for a diagnosis, early in life.
Everyone wants to be okay, and ASAN helps some people feel better about themselves. I think the happiest medium would be that there are some people with Autism that have a functionally disabling form of it and there are some that function well with it, not unlike Epilepsy.
This seems to be what the DSMV is attempting to do. I think it is a much safer longterm option than if the decision would have been to eliminate current high functioning people with Aspergers from the new criteria.
I certainly believe that I have a disorder, because it messed up my whole life. Before I discovered that I had AS, I was told the following instead:
1. I was strange
2. I was lazy
3. I suffered form depression
4. I was rude and difficult.
5. I had bipolar II
6. I had ADHD
I wanted to die frequently and I hated myself for not having the courage to kill myself. I had few friends and the few I did have, I did not trust and, therefore did not treat very well. I was both controlling and distant in relationships. I wanted pull my head off after hearing the same phrases, songs, etc. in my mind repeatedly for days on end. I could not break myself from routine in order to do things in a way that made actual sense.
I was prescribe medications that gave me side effects,. but made me feel no different, much less better. I was hospitalized after I could do
nothing but pace the room for three days after an unexpected life change.
So, yeah... I feel a little disabled.. However, for me, a sense of emotional support and a feeling of belonging to a larger community of others like me helps more than anything. So, for me, the self-advocacy movement is a good thing. I feel much better knowing that I can be proud of myself. I realize fully that that does not work for everyone. Many people on the spectrum need much more than encouragement. They and their families need help.
Perhaps the best route is to have one advocacy/awareness group that can peform boith roles and that realizes we are not all the same. There are as many differences between people on the spectrum as there are among neurtypical people and one size does not fit all.
I can relate to all of this; the story of many people with expressions of Autism that struggle in their everyday lives, although they may be considered to be able to function in life okay. I developed the ability to hide the internal struggles, but eventually when a major stress in life happens the ability to keep it all together can fail miserably.
Part of the reason I like this website, is that it allows all the viewpoints, with no effort to graciously tell people that this is not the appropriate place for a cure to be discussed, or that this is not the appropriate place to discuss the positive aspects of Autism.
Autism Speaks has the Lion Share of the Funding; and it appears they are making some headway in presenting both sides of the coin. I think a completely new organization might have to be developed to provide equal advocacy support to all on the spectrum; maybe changes in the way Autism is diagnosed will lead to an all inclusive effort like this. .
In the general public, at this point, I think most people consider Aspergers as a completely different disorder than Autism; it will be harder to make this distinction once it is absorbed into a general disorder.
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Chris Murray is first and foremost a human being, with multi-dimensions, people he likes to see, things he likes to do, places he like to go, etc, etc, etc. He might also be a public example of someone who is middle-functioning on the Asperger's / Autism Spectrum. His brother Tom made the following film:
Dad's in Heaven with Nixon
http://www.inheavenmovie.com/
Now, some of it is a difficult film to watch because much of the beginning is about their father, who was a troubled and pretty abusive individual.
But, Chris with some help, has jobs he likes, has an apartment, has his mother and his brother and other family members. And he has his artwork, his own unique voice, yes, he's sold, yes, he's made some money. But anything artistic is a long shot (whether a person is on the spectrum or not!), it's talent, hardwork, timing, marketing, but also a goodly quantity of just plain luck.
So, we would need a system that provides some kind of subsidized housing and not bad housing, but good housing. And perhaps subsidized employment or job coaching, although Chris actually seems like a pretty good employee.
What he might really need from time to time is a boss who's an engaged individual and if he or she sees something, even if not sure of the details, needs to say to the person (potential bully): "We need to talk. Everyone who works for this company is treated with respect. Every single employee. Do we understand each other?" (And that's only the first step. You need to have the second, third, fourth steps vaguely planned out, although you're hoping that each one works. But really, sadly, I'd say only about 1 out of 5 bosses is enough of a stand-up individual to do this. Most bosses, including in big, fancy, supposed high-class companies, generally are disengaged individuals.)
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Our medical and education systems seem to "need" to diagnose someone as either high-functioning or low-functioning.
It will be a step forward once our systems become more comfortable diagnosing someone as middle-functioning (if appropriate). And as middle-functioning, the person needs some help in some areas, it's highly dependent on the individual, as well it should be. ![]()
It will be a step forward once our systems become more comfortable diagnosing someone as middle-functioning (if appropriate). And as middle-functioning, the person needs some help in some areas, it's highly dependent on the individual, as well it should be.
There seems to be an underlying theme that either you are brilliant and odd with Autism, or are unable to verbally communicate. The number of IQ threads I have seen here seems reflective of this. There are many people undiagnosed, that never go to college, and still find ways to survive in the world as other people with average intelligence.
When the preconcieved notion is either genius or non-verbal, these "moderate" people can be left completely off the radar.
There is probably a much larger story to tell that many are completely unaware of.
It does seem like the DSMV is addressing some of this with severity levels across the spectrum. And hopefully support will be provided to those that need help that ordinarily would not be able to afford a diagnosis. And finally the community support for subsistence is a great one, but I'm not sure where the funding would come for such a large scale endeavor. The difficulties in supporting those with Kanner's type Autism into adulthood is already seen as a major societial challenge.
I really do not like social networking beyond theory. The idea of keeping up with it all in a sustained way is not interesting to me. The ideas and premises of innovative inclusion design and it's awareness is important. Although I simply cannot affiliate with ASAN nor those that publicly affiliate with them because of the ethics issues. I have about another three weeks that I am allowed to be on this forum for public relations studies (intervention methods and prevention) and then poof I will be gone in exception for direct work related awareness distribution and related short conversation.
I am going to design a non-central based leadership model which does not compromise advocacy as a whole but clusters out psycho-social risks. The intent in premise is fundamental action so as to manifest in local and regional capacities inclusion public relations models and action advocacy on a national level for intervention in human rights and inclusion matters strictly by participants in their say so. Moreover the central agenda is collaboration of diversity and not so much a pre-formatted dictation and is a service of participants and not otherwise. It's website will be http://www.autismadvocacynetwork.com & .org and autismselfadvocacynetwork.com & .org which are already registered. There must be a backup plan to ASAN and a realization of something which differs from them in encompassing premise which is not bogged down by their histology in politics and methodology.
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