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22 Jul 2011, 8:45 pm

The issues are when applicable directly or indirectly interconnected. Some have conspiracy theory about compassion and a preservation agenda of a certain image of autism for the sake of abortion politics. If one projection of autism may indirectly effect an agenda of theirs they don't like it. This is where the line in the sand is being drawn.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8PXgFLlJLO8[/youtube]


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22 Jul 2011, 9:02 pm

thats why i said what i said to debunk such paranoid beliefs.ok i have to drive back to vermont now,good night


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23 Jul 2011, 5:36 pm

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There we go with the locker room ego again.

You can't take any critcisism can you? What the hell does that even mean? Only by making no sense do you ever get heard at all ci. Everything else you say is impenetrable.
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What I just said I don't speak or broadcast toward the public.

I cannot believe you can be so two-faced. Of course you're broadcasting it to the public! You're posting in a public forum!
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Compassion is a method of adaptation

No it isn't. Compassion is a form of mercy on the unfortunate.
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and the individuals able to graduate college and are very independent don't nee. this kind of advocacy.

That's terribly self-centred to think you can insulate yourself from those who are capable.
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It's very self-centered to remove compassion for the sake of prides ego and it's image.

Pride's ego? or is that pride, ego and it's image? In either case this is padding trying to appear as a salient point.
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Those that use autism simply to say how gifted they are and suppress the advocacy of those who are in need of a differing adaption strategy are worse then real discrimination.

Well fair enough. That's okay actually.
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They are in fact enabling the agenda of reducing equality.

Meh.. *does a maybe gesture* From the point of view of your people that would be true. But there are arguments people have to the contrary.
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People with Asperger's Syndrome do not qualify for the facilitated inclusion supports I advocate about and when applicable for.

Well make that more clear when you then bash me over the head with your delusions. Maybe then you'll understand that when you say a cure-fits-all policy is okay you might be making a slight assumption.



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23 Jul 2011, 6:09 pm

It takes SO much time going through and replying to each individual quote that most of the time I don't bother. Mr. Gedrene has so very little sensitivity and respect in advocacy he openly uses the R word. Any professional advocate knows of the struggle others have undertaken to end that kind of verbiage in the mainstream let alone within advocacy circles where they should know better. No correction by him was taken.

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You can't take any critcisism can you? What the hell does that even mean? Only by making no sense do you ever get heard at all ci. Everything else you say is impenetrable. .


It's the small talk of putting ones own self-image above the best interest of others. The idea of disability does not center around the approval of how strong or how acceptable it is but in light of the truth where facts are true reality. Facts do not change because of abortion agenda’s, ideas of superiority or a few that desire to make autism out into an identity to abide by.

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I cannot believe you can be so two-faced. Of course you're broadcasting it to the public! You're posting in a public forum!


I am speaking about public awareness pieces in official advocacy. This forum is not official advocacy it’s more so a support group then mainstream awareness but it is publicly available. In professional broadcasts such as the radio ads I posted, news media articles and printed organization information’s I do not get into those items of discussion or even on the official website.

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Compassion is a method of adaptation


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No it isn't. Compassion is a form of mercy on the unfortunate.

Yes it is. It is of and related to emotions and the modality of adaptive approaches.

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and the individuals able to graduate college and are very independent don't nee. this kind of advocacy.


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That's terribly self-centred to think you can insulate yourself from those who are capable.


The hell it is. They are welcome to work as support employees but it’s a world of difference between someone that does not struggle in a life limiting way preventing substantial employment and those that are not. Enough with them trying to take over and benefit from advocacy for those who are determined under the law to be substantially disabled. No more exploitation such as what ASAN has done and got companies to hire just the most abled. That’s a load of bull when others are isolated and or dirt poor.

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It's very self-centered to remove compassion for the sake of prides ego and it's image.


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Pride's ego? or is that pride, ego and it's image? In either case this is padding trying to appear as a salient point.


I think what I’m trying to say is some folks need to back off or become politically challenged. When they hate on compassionate means and do not need those means for the sake of their otherwise very high functioning ego’s and autism that’s truly and profoundly selfish. I’d be happy to hand them their a**’s on a very visible political platter for all the see. No one else has had a problem with what I’ve done and the successes I’ve achieved other then pride people and I’d be much obliged to serve them what they deserve socially should they do so again.

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Those that use autism simply to say how gifted they are and suppress the advocacy of those who are in need of a differing adaption strategy are worse then real discrimination.


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Well fair enough. That's okay actually.


We will see to what extent you think it’s fair as I tell some others to shove off that are more about their ego’s and autism then the needs of those who are left in this world with very little opportunity.

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They are in fact enabling the agenda of reducing equality.


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Meh.. *does a maybe gesture* From the point of view of your people that would be true. But there are arguments people have to the contrary. .


If the approach is good I won’t socially and politically knock it to them. Behind the scenes if someone comes to me that’s from the pride faction and has a civil conversation I might consider it. However it’s only pride that’s been profoundly confrontational with me and I’ll say it quite openly. Them folks didn’t realize just how good and how strong the response would be. You and them want some respect from me you got to give it first but unlike them I don’t want anyone to bow down and worship me for drummed up persecution around every corner in my imagination to get my way.

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People with Asperger's Syndrome do not qualify for the facilitated inclusion supports I advocate about and when applicable for.


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Well make that more clear when you then bash me over the head with your delusions. Maybe then you'll understand that when you say a cure-fits-all policy is okay you might be making a slight assumption.


Listen Gedrene the organization I brought up with those PSA videos and proposition for awareness focuses in the greater autism community has nothing to do with cure. I do not establish the laws that prevent people with A.S from qualifying. It’s your delusion and combining the issues along with your disrespectful usage of the R word toward others like some school aged bully brat that’s doesn’t know any better. Conversation on this forum has been about all kinds of issues. This conversation is about transitional inclusion under compassionate purposes as an awareness focus.

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23 Jul 2011, 9:56 pm

Ci you care way to much of what the neurotypical people think of you. For me I do not need pity or compassion from the neurotypical. Rather what I need is freedom. Neurotypicals think they are showing me compassion when they allow me to work until Friday before I get fired. You know what if I am going to get fired don't even bother to let me finish the day but rather fire me right now on the spot. Either fire me right now or fire me when the job is over everyone else gets fired but don't think you are doing me a favor by letting me finish the day, the week, or even the month.



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23 Jul 2011, 10:01 pm

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Ci you care way to much of what the neurotypical people think of you. For me I do not need pity or compassion from the neurotypical. Rather what I need is freedom. Neurotypicals think they are showing me compassion when they allow me to work until Friday before I get fired. You know what if I am going to get fired don't even bother to let me finish the day but rather fire me right now on the spot. Either fire me right now or fire me when the job is over everyone else gets fired but don't think you are doing me a favor by letting me finish the day, the week, or even the month.


You have let your personal experiences plague your view of the entire world. The reasonable world works in reasonable ways approaching matters with general civility and human emotions in balance. I am in a position where I must be responsible in official communications and in a way that best leads to a better result for more people then just myself. You will not get that far with the mainstream public treating them as if they are every bad boss you experienced and that they are in anyway intending to be hateful and destructive toward you when they don't know you from any other stranger.


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23 Jul 2011, 10:03 pm

By the way Ci do not think I am attacking you personally. I have probably kissed up to bosses more than you have. For example one boss allowed an autistic to finish out a 4 year limited term of employment and I should be so gratefull.



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23 Jul 2011, 10:05 pm

More then likely without any assistance you were able to achieve that job. My advocacy concerns individuals that cannot achieve that sort of sustained employment on their own in the first place. The difference is apples and oranges. The world is more accessible to you then to others. I would suggest to you to adjust your attitude if its anything like what it is online and outlook to see if it improves your employment results.


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24 Jul 2011, 5:05 am

gendrene i dont understand anything you say about compasion and pity.i dont understand what you say about anything.@ ci, it doesnt sound at all like your a autism advocate,it sounds like your a anti poverty advocate.other than the fact that a lot of people with autism fall into poverty i dont see your arguments as relivent to autism at all


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24 Jul 2011, 7:11 am

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gendrene i dont understand anything you say about compasion and pity.

Well maybe you should post that in the relevant thread? That isn't what I am talking about here.
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i dont understand what you say about anything.

Well okay. Could you point to something rather than all of it? I haven't actually written that much in my time here about what I think.



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24 Jul 2011, 8:04 am

The fourth party, definitely, :wink: .



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24 Jul 2011, 8:53 am

any "group" is an illusion for comfort, to behave according to one or the other is meaningless in the end,
satisfy yourself, take care of those around you and remember that in our differences we are alike.
we dont need complicated gestures, nor do we need unbound "compassion"
we need people to get their head out of their ass and take eachother seriously.


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24 Jul 2011, 9:46 am

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we need people to get their head out of their ass and take eachother seriously.


I'll certainly take anyone seriously. Sometimes too seriously. As for their plans, I will consider them all.



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24 Jul 2011, 9:48 am

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The fourth party, definitely, :wink: .


Definitely.



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24 Jul 2011, 10:02 am

Gedrene wrote:
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gendrene i dont understand anything you say about compasion and pity.

Well maybe you should post that in the relevant thread? That isn't what I am talking about here.
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i dont understand what you say about anything.

Well okay. Could you point to something rather than all of it? I haven't actually written that much in my time here about what I think.
you have accused ci several times of being a pityfull curebee several tmes on this thread,ci is only trying to cure poverty anyway


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24 Jul 2011, 10:03 am

Gedrene wrote:
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gendrene i dont understand anything you say about compasion and pity.

Well maybe you should post that in the relevant thread? That isn't what I am talking about here.
vermontsavant wrote:
i dont understand what you say about anything.

Well okay. Could you point to something rather than all of it? I haven't actually written that much in my time here about what I think.
you have accused ci several times of being a pityfull curebee several tmes on this thread,ci is only trying to cure poverty anyway


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