Sociopaths and Aspies
Aspies and sociopaths are night and day.
The differences are marked, but the similarities are interesting. With ADHD too.
I would hazard a theory that they all arise from atypical brain development, but with different emphases on parts of the brain affected, and consequently different behaviours and coping strategies.
Putting it rather simplistically.
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B: It is considered hard for people with Aspergers to lie, they are often brutally honest.
C: People with Aspergers often have to have a plan before doing something as simple as going to the grocery store and normally will not deviate from it.
D: Rarely do people with Aspergers assault others they are more often the target of assaults.
E: Anxiety is often high among those that have Aspergers, they are normally the cautious ones in any group.
F: When people with Aspergers are employed they are often lauded for their loyalty and attention to detail in the work they do.
G: People with Aspergers do at times hurt other people's feelings without understanding they are doing it. It's not likely they would rationalize harm they don't understand they are doing.
Personal experience leads me to say that A is more of a case of strictly enforcing rules they think are right.
Second I would say that C may be true in your case but it isn't for me.
E is true but that is more of a sociological factor of being picked on.
G well yeah. I think having empathy for someone else is something I don't lack. It's just people try to tell me that because I understand where they are coming from they insist I must think that they are right when in actual fact many of their trivialities seem cowardly.
I gues you were form-fitting to the criteria but I advise you not to make accidental generalizations.
Well, I am as amazed as anyone that you'd actually come straight to our defence without hesitation. It goes to show that having an open mind pays off.
B: It is considered hard for people with Aspergers to lie, they are often brutally honest.
C: People with Aspergers often have to have a plan before doing something as simple as going to the grocery store and normally will not deviate from it.
D: Rarely do people with Aspergers assault others they are more often the target of assaults.
E: Anxiety is often high among those that have Aspergers, they are normally the cautious ones in any group.
F: When people with Aspergers are employed they are often lauded for their loyalty and attention to detail in the work they do.
G: People with Aspergers do at times hurt other people's feelings without understanding they are doing it. It's not likely they would rationalize harm they don't understand they are doing.
Personal experience leads me to say that A is more of a case of strictly enforcing rules they think are right.
Second I would say that C may be true in your case but it isn't for me.
E is true but that is more of a sociological factor of being picked on.
G well yeah. I think having empathy for someone else is something I don't lack. It's just people try to tell me that because I understand where they are coming from they insist I must think that they are right when in actual fact many of their trivialities seem cowardly.
I gues you were form-fitting to the criteria but I advise you not to make accidental generalizations.
Well, I am as amazed as anyone that you'd actually come straight to our defence without hesitation. It goes to show that having an open mind pays off.
We all can benefit from an open mind and allow ourselves to be corrected when we make a mistake. I have the same rigid way of thinking as any individual with Autism, but I make a conscious effort, to focus on facts as they are presented.
I'm careful to separate my opinion from fact as I express each. Every single factor here that I have listed can be easily evidenced as traits of Aspergers. I was prepared to provide evidence for each factor if requested. Not everyone fits the mold, I presented none of them as universal traits; but they are considered traits of Aspergers.
There is no "DSM IV criteria for sociopathy". Sociopathy is an exact synonym for Psychopathy which was removed from DSM III but may yet be replaced in DSM V in some form.
"Anti-social Personality Disorder" is something of an umbrella term intended to include psycho/sociopathy but generally considered inadequate almost from it's inception, not least because the criteria exclude more controlled forms of psycho/sociopathy completely and only over generalise the more blatant, criminal forms.
Of course, from a diagnosticians point of view the more general, and less final, diagnosis of "Anti-social Personality Disorder" is not only easier to make from the point of view of not permanently stigmatising the patient but also from the point of view of protecting his insurance premiums. A proven misdiagnosis of psycho/sociopathy as such could lead to significant damages...likewise an alternative diagnosis that ignored the risk potential of the patient.
You present part of what I said. Here is all of what I said and how it relates to the DSMIV diagnosis of Anti-Social Personality. I clearly state that Antisocial personality disorder is the proper psychological term for a sociopath or a psychopath.
Whether or not we agree with the DSMIV standards, or the proper nomenclature, they are the only Psychological criteria that brings a psychological diagnosis to an individual that one might call a socio-path at this point in time.
Many proper psychological terms for diagnosis don't match the nomenclature of the general public, as well as diagnoses for general health problems.
Quote:
DSM-IV Definition
Antisocial personality disorder is characterized by a lack of regard for the moral or legal standards in the local culture. There is a marked inability to get along with others or abide by societal rules. Individuals with this disorder are sometimes called psychopaths or sociopaths.
Well as it is, in reality, nothing of the kind, I think anything else you have said can safely be disregarded as irrelevant, which is what I intend to do.
Psycho/Sociopathy can only be correctly diagnosed either by using the PCL-R scale, or, of course, subjectively.
1. I hope I never meet that woman. While I would agree that 30% of males are lying jerks, I think 10% for women is low.
This is the story of "My Needs." and what she demands of men is just not so. Half would not play her game, and 30% would play it right back at her. So she is looking for the two out of ten she can get over on.
People lie because the truth does not work, ask Aspies, they are famous for not telling the right lie.
Lying is a way of life for most. It is their best defense. It starts early, never tell the truth to parents, school, church, just tell them what they want to hear.
Now we elevate it to a mental disorder?
Methinks the people who write the DSM should spend more time in bars. I think they learn about life from the books of the group that read books to learn about life before them.
As Kelly Bundy said to brother Bud, "We are all liers, and you are all idiots." She deserves a Doctorate for such sisterly advice.
I think I am having an Aspie moment.
How do you tell the difference between and Aspie and a Sociopath?
*The Sociopath is initially, charming and easy to be with, the Aspie is not
*The Sociopath can almost invariably control "at least" the superficial reactions of those around him and get his own way, the Aspie cannot.
Conscience?
I don't think so...if you have a way to work out what is going on in other people's heads well enough to know if they are acting out of conscience or for the sake of appearances without knowing them very, very well you should have your own network TV series!
But there is one other dead give away...even when a Sociopath is hiding his lack of conscience he will often fail to recognise, let alone hide his impaired sense of consequence, this means:
*He is not very good at estimating his chances of being caught.
*He is not very good at at estimating factors *OUTSIDE* his control in your reaction (for example the effect *your* conscience or obligations may have on your compliance)
*He is not very good at estimating potential dangers.
Most Sociopaths have no real idea what they are, assume that they are perfectly normal and everybody else is just like them, and that anything people say to the contrary is just being polite.
The sociopath also relates everything to himself and does not really see any difference between you being pleased with him, and you being happy. If you want him to go away he will interpret that as you punishing him for a mistake in his behaviour to you, NOT as an genuine aversion you feel to him.
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PS There really is some awful ould rubbish talked about sociopathy on the internet - often connecting it to any other condition the author has a beef with...don't pay it too much attention.
On the internet someone could easily disguise whether or not they showed remorse, regret, or were guilty. In person you don't have to be in someone else's head to see if they are expressing the overt behaviors associated with remorse, regret or guilt that are part of having a conscience.
I agree it's harder to spot than some traits, because you have to catch them in a situation where there is obvious cause for regret, remorse, or guilt. Expressing no regret, remorse, or guilt for doing something wrong is a discrete pathological element. It is the kind of thing that leads to torturing animals and serial killers.
Taking your other points one by one:
*He is not very good at estimating his chances of being caught.
*He is not very good at at estimating factors *OUTSIDE* his control in your reaction (for example the effect *your* conscience or obligations may have on your compliance)
*He is not very good at estimating potential dangers.
I agree this is a trait of Anti-Social Personality Disorder, but impulsivity and an impaired sense of consequence is also a symptom of ADHD. One can observe the impulsivity and impaired sense of consequence, but that taken alone without the range of other traits of anti-social personality disorder could be the result of a completely different disorder, as Moog alluded to. Some people with Aspergers have that Co-morbid condition and may display that trait, but it is not necessarily indicative of an anti-social personality disorder.
Some promiscous individuals share this trait as well, but that doesn't mean that all promiscous individuals have ADHD or have anti-social personality disorder.
The sociopath also relates everything to himself and does not really see any difference between you being pleased with him, and you being happy. If you want him to go away he will interpret that as you punishing him for a mistake in his behaviour to you, NOT as an genuine aversion you feel to him.
I agree these two could be seen as part of the disorder, however some of these descriptions could also be related to selfawareness, alexithymia, and empathy issues in association with Narcissistic personality disorder, Autism, and Borderline Personality Disorder.
While all these traits might very well be part of a person diagnosed with Anti-Social Personality Disorder, they could describe an individual with Aspergers that had co-morbid conditions of ADHD, Alexithymia (understanding emotions), and problems with affective empathy.
It's part of the reason the DSMIV doesn't use the words sociopath and psychopath to describe a disorder; they have become demeaning words to describe evil intention to some behavioral traits in individuals that may be biological in origin, such as impulsivity, taking chances, not seeing danger, a lack of affective empathy, and Alexithymia.
It's pretty much what the guy was doing on the Sociopathworld internet site, when he described Aspies as sociopaths because some share the trait of problems with empathy.
Some folks adapt to their inherent impairments, well enough, not to inflict a great deal of harm on others, or become career criminals.
I see the DSMIV as taking a logical avenue in providing a proper term for the diagnosis, that does not have the societal connotations related to the words sociopath and psychopath.
Well as it is, in reality, nothing of the kind, I think anything else you have said can safely be disregarded as irrelevant, which is what I intend to do.
Psycho/Sociopathy can only be correctly diagnosed either by using the PCL-R scale, or, of course, subjectively.
There is no diagnosis for the words Psycho/Sociopathy in the DSM IV. Instead the DSMIV uses the word Anti-Personality Disorder to replace these common words to describe traits among individuals. I simply quote what the DSMIV states.
People do not get a DSM IV diagnosis as a sociopath or psychopath; that diagnosis doesn't exist in the DSM IV. I don't dispute that there are other measures that may still call it psychopathy and sociopathy, but the DSMIV, clearly does not recognize those words as diagnoses.
There is no diagnosis for the words Psycho/Sociopathy in the DSM IV. Instead the DSMIV uses the word Anti-Personality Disorder to replace these common words to describe traits among individuals. I simply quote what the DSMIV states.
People do not get a DSM IV diagnosis as a sociopath or psychopath; that diagnosis doesn't exist in the DSM IV. I don't dispute that there are other measures that may still call it psychopathy and sociopathy, but the DSMIV, clearly does not recognize those words as diagnoses.
Diagnosis is not dependent on DSM IV. The inadequacy of the ASPD category, in every sense, not just in relation to psychopathy, is already acknowledged by the DSM committee themselves and the omission is likely to be repaired in DSMV.
It seems to me that, once again, you have no idea what you are talking about yet are determined to argue it anyway.
I do not intend to play.
I intend to ignore you.
There is no diagnosis for the words Psycho/Sociopathy in the DSM IV. Instead the DSMIV uses the word Anti-Personality Disorder to replace these common words to describe traits among individuals. I simply quote what the DSMIV states.
People do not get a DSM IV diagnosis as a sociopath or psychopath; that diagnosis doesn't exist in the DSM IV. I don't dispute that there are other measures that may still call it psychopathy and sociopathy, but the DSMIV, clearly does not recognize those words as diagnoses.
Diagnosis is not dependent on DSM IV. The inadequacy of the ASPD category, in every sense, not just in relation to psychopathy, is already acknowledged by the DSM committee themselves and the omission is likely to be repaired in DSMV.
It seems to me that, once again, you have no idea what you are talking about yet are determined to argue it anyway.
I do not intend to play.
I intend to ignore you.
My first post was specific to the DSMIV criteria for antisocial personality personality disorder which clearly states that some people call people with this disorder psychopaths and sociopaths.
I speak to the DSMIV because it is the accepted standard of psychiatric diagnosis in the US. I understand it is not used everywhere in the world.
While I may not completely understand what goes on your country, I do understand how this applies to the US. The term sociopath is no longer accepted by psychiatrists and psychologists in the US.
As stated before the proper psychological term (here in the US) is Anti-Social Personality Disorder. Please don't take my word for it, I expect to provide evidence when my opinion is not accepted. While this could change in the future, and is a controversial issue for some, it is the present reality in the US, for psychiatric and psychological diagnoses.
http://www.ehow.com/about_5067762_definition-sociopath.html
References for information from this article include the Mayo Clinic and National Institute for Mental Health in the US, as listed at the bottom of the article:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hare_Psychopathy_Checklist#The_two_factors
Regarding the PCL-R from Wiki:
PCL-R Factors 2a and 2b are particularly strongly correlated to antisocial personality disorder and criminality and are associated with reactive anger, criminality, and impulsive violence. The target group for the PCL-R is convicted criminals. The quality of ratings may depend on how much background information is available and whether the person rated is honest and forthright.
The test itself was developed by Hare in Britain to detect psychopathy. In the US it is used in the psychiatric profession for assessment, specific in relation to the DSMIV personality disorders narcissistic PD, Histrionic PD, and Anti-social Personality. To meet actual diagnosis for Anti-Social Personality Disorder one must still meet the DSMIV criteria, in addition to this assessment, when it is used.
Same article from Wiki:
The official stance of the American Psychiatric Association as presented in the DSM-IV-TR is that psychopathy and sociopathy are misnomers. The World Health Organization takes a different stance in its ICD-10 by referring to psychopathy, antisocial personality, asocial personality, and amoral personality as synonyms for dissocial personality disorder.
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I've visited the local prison system that houses some of the most dangerous psychopaths identified in society; a common term, but they likely had a psychological diagnosis of anti-social personality disorder, here in the US. They were pointed out to us. Not the kind of people I would associate with.
My idea of a real sociopath or psychopath is one that more closely represents what the DSMIV states about anti-social personality disorder. It is clear, and there is not as much confusion in mixing up Aspies, NPD's, HPD's, BPD's, and ADHD; they get their own diagnoses.
The DSMIV protects Aspies from the kind of stuff that was written by an author of a blog, that felt like Aspies were sociopaths, because some lack affective empathy, a trait shared by some of those diagnosed with anti-social personality disorder.
I can certainly tell, though, when someone is out to hurt other humans or animals, and feels no remorse, regret or guilt. It shows on the victim's face, if not the offender.
And for clarification here is the current proposed DSMV guidlines for Ant-Social Personality Disorder(Dyssocial Personality Disorder)
The terms psychopath and sociopath are not used in the revision.
http://www.dsm5.org/ProposedRevisions/Pages/proposedrevision.aspx?rid=16#
The pathological elements are basically the same as before; they have removed the specific criminal elements from the diagnosis.
Added in Identity-Egocentrism issues as an alternate option to self direction issues and Intimacy issues as an alternate option for Empathy issues.
Proposed RevisionRationaleSeverityDSM-IV Updated June 21, 2011
The essential features of a personality disorder are impairments in personality (self and interpersonal) functioning and the presence of pathological personality traits. To diagnose antisocial personality disorder, the following criteria must be met:
A. Significant impairments in personality functioning manifest by:
1. Impairments in self functioning (a or b):
a. Identity: Ego-centrism; self-esteem derived from personal gain, power, or pleasure.
b. Self-direction: Goal-setting based on personal gratification; absence of prosocial internal standards associated with failure to conform to lawful or culturally normative ethical behavior.
AND
2. Impairments in interpersonal functioning (a or b):
a. Empathy: Lack of concern for feelings, needs, or suffering of others; lack of remorse after hurting or mistreating another.
b. Intimacy: Incapacity for mutually intimate relationships, as exploitation is a primary means of relating to others, including by deceit and coercion; use of dominance or intimidation to control others.
B. Pathological personality traits in the following domains:
1. Antagonism, characterized by:
a. Manipulativeness: Frequent use of subterfuge to influence or control others; use of seduction, charm, glibness, or ingratiation to achieve one‘s ends.
b. Deceitfulness: Dishonesty and fraudulence; misrepresentation of self; embellishment or fabrication when relating events.
c. Callousness: Lack of concern for feelings or problems of others; lack of guilt or remorse about the negative or harmful effects of one‘s actions on others; aggression; sadism.
d. Hostility: Persistent or frequent angry feelings; anger or irritability in response to minor slights and insults; mean, nasty, or vengeful behavior.
2. Disinhibition, characterized by:
a. Irresponsibility: Disregard for – and failure to honor – financial and other obligations or commitments; lack of respect for – and lack of follow through on – agreements and promises.
b. Impulsivity: Acting on the spur of the moment in response to immediate stimuli; acting on a momentary basis without a plan or consideration of outcomes; difficulty establishing and following plans.
c. Risk taking: Engagement in dangerous, risky, and potentially self-damaging activities, unnecessarily and without regard for consequences; boredom proneness and thoughtless initiation of activities to counter boredom; lack of concern for one‘s limitations and denial of the reality of personal danger.
C. The impairments in personality functioning and the individual’s personality trait expression are relatively stable across time and consistent across situations.
D. The impairments in personality functioning and the individual’s personality trait expression are not better understood as normative for the individual’s developmental stage or socio-cultural environment.
E. The impairments in personality functioning and the individual’s personality trait expression are not solely due to the direct physiological effects of a substance (e.g., a drug of abuse, medication) or a general medical condition (e.g., severe head trauma).
The terms psychopath and sociopath are not used in the revision.
http://www.dsm5.org/ProposedRevisions/Pages/proposedrevision.aspx?rid=16#
The pathological elements are basically the same as before; they have removed the specific criminal elements from the diagnosis.
Added in Identity-Egocentrism issues as an alternate option to self direction issues and Intimacy issues as an alternate option for Empathy issues.
Proposed RevisionRationaleSeverityDSM-IV Updated June 21, 2011
The essential features of a personality disorder are impairments in personality (self and interpersonal) functioning and the presence of pathological personality traits. To diagnose antisocial personality disorder, the following criteria must be met:
A. Significant impairments in personality functioning manifest by:
1. Impairments in self functioning (a or b):
a. Identity: Ego-centrism; self-esteem derived from personal gain, power, or pleasure.
b. Self-direction: Goal-setting based on personal gratification; absence of prosocial internal standards associated with failure to conform to lawful or culturally normative ethical behavior.
AND
2. Impairments in interpersonal functioning (a or b):
a. Empathy: Lack of concern for feelings, needs, or suffering of others; lack of remorse after hurting or mistreating another.
b. Intimacy: Incapacity for mutually intimate relationships, as exploitation is a primary means of relating to others, including by deceit and coercion; use of dominance or intimidation to control others.
B. Pathological personality traits in the following domains:
1. Antagonism, characterized by:
a. Manipulativeness: Frequent use of subterfuge to influence or control others; use of seduction, charm, glibness, or ingratiation to achieve one‘s ends.
b. Deceitfulness: Dishonesty and fraudulence; misrepresentation of self; embellishment or fabrication when relating events.
c. Callousness: Lack of concern for feelings or problems of others; lack of guilt or remorse about the negative or harmful effects of one‘s actions on others; aggression; sadism.
d. Hostility: Persistent or frequent angry feelings; anger or irritability in response to minor slights and insults; mean, nasty, or vengeful behavior.
2. Disinhibition, characterized by:
a. Irresponsibility: Disregard for – and failure to honor – financial and other obligations or commitments; lack of respect for – and lack of follow through on – agreements and promises.
b. Impulsivity: Acting on the spur of the moment in response to immediate stimuli; acting on a momentary basis without a plan or consideration of outcomes; difficulty establishing and following plans.
c. Risk taking: Engagement in dangerous, risky, and potentially self-damaging activities, unnecessarily and without regard for consequences; boredom proneness and thoughtless initiation of activities to counter boredom; lack of concern for one‘s limitations and denial of the reality of personal danger.
C. The impairments in personality functioning and the individual’s personality trait expression are relatively stable across time and consistent across situations.
D. The impairments in personality functioning and the individual’s personality trait expression are not better understood as normative for the individual’s developmental stage or socio-cultural environment.
E. The impairments in personality functioning and the individual’s personality trait expression are not solely due to the direct physiological effects of a substance (e.g., a drug of abuse, medication) or a general medical condition (e.g., severe head trauma).
The symptoms remind me of a major political campaign.
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Good point: Let's take them one by one and see how the traits listed might fit the average politician
1. Impairments in self functioning (a or b):
a. Identity: Ego-centrism; self-esteem derived from personal gain, power, or pleasure.
May apply to most politicians
b. Self-direction: Goal-setting based on personal gratification; absence of prosocial internal standards associated with failure to conform to lawful or culturally normative ethical behavior.
May apply to some politicians
AND
2. Impairments in interpersonal functioning (a or b):
a. Empathy: Lack of concern for feelings, needs, or suffering of others; lack of remorse after hurting or mistreating another.
May apply to some politicians
b. Intimacy: Incapacity for mutually intimate relationships, as exploitation is a primary means of relating to others, including by deceit and coercion; use of dominance or intimidation to control others.
May apply to some politicians
B. Pathological personality traits in the following domains:
1. Antagonism, characterized by:
a. Manipulativeness: Frequent use of subterfuge to influence or control others; use of seduction, charm, glibness, or ingratiation to achieve one‘s ends.
May apply to most politicians
b. Deceitfulness: Dishonesty and fraudulence; misrepresentation of self; embellishment or fabrication when relating events.
May apply to some politicians
c. Callousness: Lack of concern for feelings or problems of others; lack of guilt or remorse about the negative or harmful effects of one‘s actions on others; aggression; sadism.
May apply to some politicians
d. Hostility: Persistent or frequent angry feelings; anger or irritability in response to minor slights and insults; mean, nasty, or vengeful behavior.
May apply to some politicans
2. Disinhibition, characterized by:
a. Irresponsibility: Disregard for – and failure to honor – financial and other obligations or commitments; lack of respect for – and lack of follow through on – agreements and promises.
May apply to many politicians
b. Impulsivity: Acting on the spur of the moment in response to immediate stimuli; acting on a momentary basis without a plan or consideration of outcomes; difficulty establishing and following plans.
May apply to many politicians
c. Risk taking: Engagement in dangerous, risky, and potentially self-damaging activities, unnecessarily and without regard for consequences; boredom proneness and thoughtless initiation of activities to counter boredom; lack of concern for one‘s limitations and denial of the reality of personal danger.
May apply to some politicians
C. The impairments in personality functioning and the individual’s personality trait expression are relatively stable across time and consistent across situations.
May apply to some politicans
D. The impairments in personality functioning and the individual’s personality trait expression are not better understood as normative for the individual’s developmental stage or socio-cultural environment.
The traits displayed here may be part of the normal socio-cultural environment for some politicians.
E. The impairments in personality functioning and the individual’s personality trait expression are not solely due to the direct physiological effects of a substance (e.g., a drug of abuse, medication) or a general medical condition (e.g., severe head trauma).
As far as I know this may apply to all politicians.
Subjectively speaking it may be possible that some politicians display these traits; however since it appears it may be a cultural norm within this group of people, they would not meet a psychological diagnosis of Anti-Social Behavior, if this were the case.
The criminal element in the previous DSMIV diagnosis would have excluded close to all politicians.
Much of the revised standards seem to be composed of traits that are similar to what might commonly be understood as the "Alpha Male Syndrome"
How some may view The CEO, the Politician, the people that so many love to hate that rule the world.
The opposite of how we may normally view people with Autism/Aspergers Syndrome.
Human beings are a complex group of individuals, but we share so much with others, we rarely notice in ourselves.
Politicians: aren't they supposed to be the Social Ones Among Us?

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It made me laugh. Political fighting between parties is nasty and I don't think they care about hurting feelings. Mainstream political psycho/sociopaths and which political path. Which one to vote for...?
It is a joke however.
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